You may not have noticed, but since the start of the year and even just prior to 2015, I have been on Hubski less. This is due to a number of factors, but primarily two: Kids and work. The work part should be getting back to normal in the not too distant future and the kid thing is, hopefully, here to stay. I have been trying to manage my time better though because I really miss you guys. No joke. Hanging out here and hearing about what all of you are up to is such a positive part of my life.
Therefore, I would like to ask you to indulge me while I shout-out to those of you that I've not interacted with in too long. Some of you I may have recently interacted with but not around the topic(s) I'm most curious about regarding you. So, while this is specific to me and the conversations you and I have had over the years, I would be glad to have others weigh in in the comment section.
Also, if I DID NOT shout-out to you, it does not mean that I'm not interested in what you've been up to or accomplishing. The impetus for this post was a video that blackbootz recently posted about his applying to be on American Ninja Warrior. I thought that it was awesome and I almost missed the post, which means there are other awesome things I've likely missed of late. So, here goes my litany of questions for you all. My hope is that the comment section here becomes an awesome way for ALL OF US (not just those shouted out to) to "catch up" with one another.
b_b, I have heard next to nothing about your wedding or about the reception that you threw in Michigan. How did it go? What were your favorite parts? How did the bride look? How does it feel to be married now? Different?
insomniasexx - Are you still globetrotting? What was your favorite destination? Favorite food? If you've already done a trip report, link please, I missed it. I'm envious of your freedom and I'm so glad you are using it for adventure, too many people squander it.
forwardslash - How is the rewrite coming? Any chance you can share some screen-shots for the Hubski community? Also, do you realize that when you and I first became pals on Hubski you were just engaged? Think about that... you're like an old married pro by now. Also, for those of you that don't know it, / has an amazing wife. They're a great couple that truly seemed destined to be together. I really like it when his wife is able to say hello on our team calls. Cheers pal!
mk -How is your family? We always talk Hubski etc, but we don't talk enough about how gq and your beautiful daughter are doing. How are they? The kids grow up so quickly. What are some of the interesting things that she is up to these days? Would you say that being a father has been intuitive for you or have you struggled with it? You seem like a natural to me.
kleinbl00 - What's up with the novel? What's up with getting out of LA? -I forget if I've ever asked you, but do you guys plan on having more kids ever? You should know that one of my goals in life is that our families hang out some day, I'd really enjoy that. It seems so many of us fellas on Hubski have daughters around the same age. That would be one hell of a play date.
lil -How was your school year this year? How is your spousal unit doing? How is your daughter? How are YOU? I think you take such good care of everyone that sometimes, I bet, you forget that last question.
theadvancedapes, I know you stopped by the other day and briefly mentioned that you are settling in to life in Belgium. How is it? What are you studying right now, what is your work? What is your overall goal while there? Are you still pursuing life as a science popularizer? Is the blog still going? How about the PBS vids? I miss ya pal.
ButterflyEffect -You in Washington yet? How was the move? What do you think of the place? If you're not there yet, how are you feeling about going? Whens the job start?
galen - Fleeing the nest. How do you feel about heading off to school? What, if anything freaks you out? Also, did you record drums on that tune I posted?
Mindwolf -Life as a skeptic, never trusting anyone... must be rough. -Just kidding. How is the Michigan Skeptics group doing? Have your numbers grown over the years since we first met? That's quite a lot of work to keep something like that going. My hats off to you.
humanodon -My little asian brother. How is Boston pal? Any luck with the ladies? Career? I miss reading your commentary and your poetry.
_refugee_ -Did you just get a new tattoo? I recall seeing something like that while trying to peruse Hubski on my phone, while my daughter was at dance class. How is the poetry coming along? Any new publications on the horizon? It seems 2014 was a good year for you in that regard, right? How is life with the boyfriend? All good?
eightbitsamurai -Even when life is crazy ass busy, I still manage to read all the happenings in Hubskina. The other day, I showed my daughter the drawing you made of "green" and I told her it was me. She likes it. -Thanks for making me seem cooler than I am.
flagamuffin and veen, thanks again for spearheading the #bestof2014, I know that I was of ZERO help with that, my apologies. I appreciate how much you guys help out around here. What's going on with you both? Any travel plans? If I missed posts, please link. veen, you back home now? Also, every time I write "veen" my computer wants it to say, "even." -EVERY DAMN TIME.
mknod -How is the writing going? It was for a podcast, right? Did you finish it?
cgod -Can we buy a cup of coffee from you yet? Where you at in the process of opening your shop?
mike -Viking camp? Is it up and running yet? If at all possible, could you share some new photos of the place. I think what you are doing is amazing. I hope you are well pal!
ghostoffuffle -How are the twins? How are you? I know we keep in pretty good touch outside of Hubski, but seriously dude.. how are ya? You are a busy mo-fo. When exactly are you guys planning on moving? Is it just a "perhaps" thing or is it a "definite" thing? Also, one last plug for you to move to NC.
cW -When are you moving in to my driveway?
ecib -One of the largest referring links to Hubski in 2014 was a post you made describing how to take an old popcorn popper and convert it in to a coffee roaster. However, the largest link provider to Hubski remains NotPhil's how to make a mircowaved frittata. How are you guys? ecib, you still roasting coffee? NotPhil, I miss your photo-essay/geo quizzes. Those were badass. Hope you two are well.
briandmyers -You always seem to be up to something. What is it these days? Fixing up an old boat? Keeping bees? Making beer? Making mead? All of the above? What's keeping you busy these days brian? I hope you and the missus are well!
nowaypablo -I'm going to keep the #songsforpabs going. Hope you don't mind. I think I saw in chatter that you are taking the SAT's soon. Good luck, let me know how you feel you did.
Meriadoc, arguewithatree -How is life in DC? I should be heading out that way sometime in 2015 and we will have to get a scotch together (maybe several). -We will of course invite wasoxygen and leave him with the tab.
BLOB_CASTLE -How is life in Oregon? You are engaged, right? Have you set a date for the wedding? Formal, informal?
sounds_sound -I am psyched to come see you in Vancouver. SO SO SO excited. What can we do while I'm there? Any chance you could take a couple days away from work? Jo will be in conferences during the day and I could explore Vancouver with you. I'm really looking forward to it.
steve -You working on anything cool of late? Any new videos? I promise I'll get a new podcast started soon, I miss working on them.
AnSionnachRua -You still stomping around gods green earth with no shoes? What's the longest trek you've been on of late? I hope you are well, it's been too long my friend.
T-Dog -You are tracking a new album with your band. How is it going? I'm very excited to hear the tunes, as you know.. I'm a fan. Let me know if you ever have roughs you can share. I love hearing music prior to completion.
Complexity -How is your book sharing initiative going?
demure -Have you played Carnegie yet? Break a leg!! I can't wait to hear about it.
elizabeth, I haven't heard from you in a while, any big travel plans coming up? I miss seeing your photography, you have such a great eye. I hope you are well!
cliffelam -How is life in your new digs? You want to run the Tar Heel 10 miler with me this year?
caio -What are you up to these days? You a linguist? I recall that when you joined Hubski YEARS ago, it was to better your english as you were studying linguistics, right? Did it help? What are you working on these days?
JakobVirgil -You still in my neck of the woods? What ever happened to the napkin art?
AshShields -How is your radio show going? You still doing it?
StJohn, When can I expect the next book? Is it in the same vein as Radium Baby?
I look forward to hearing from you all. I've missed being as active as I used to be, but I shall be back in full force soon!
All my best!
-Steve
This is pretty much the quintessential Hubski post. Chewy content, a reminder that people out there are thinking about and remembering the lives of other Hubskiers, a reminder to me that there are other people out there whose delights and tribulations I missed, a post that itself aspires to be a Hubski sub hub around which Hubskier can create a hubbub, a demonstration that we're not just text on a screen with no memories or empathy. For those asking, this is why Hubski is Hubski. To address your question, TNG, the #hubskiliterarything is on schedule to reach the end of Phase One ('Acquire Literature') in the next couple of days. Just two of the eight-wait-no-nine books are still to arrive at Literary Thing central. Originally the number was fixed at eight books, one for each dot around the central hubwheel. Seven people responded in the original thread leaving one free seat in the selection thread which GorGorGorillaNeck snapped up. However in a subsequent related thread about marginalia, veen pointed out that _refugee_ had arrived late to the party and maybe we could squeeze her in. Thus she, Veen and fate cashed in her Golden Joker, which corresponded with my entirely arbitrary realisation that the central hubwheel was a bonus ninth seat on the bus. And so we are nine. Fate willing, next week is Phase Two ('Disperse Matter Globally') and then it's a waiting game until things arrive at their destinations. Which is sad for me as I started to leaf through a few of the books I hadn't read and almost immediately got sucked in. They will fly from my hands too soon, too soon. Which reminds me: kleinbl00 and _refugee_ PM me addresses please.
I just described what you are doing to my wife, who is not always super keen on hearing about the goings on of Hubski (unless it involves galen, she's fascinated by what his parents did to make him be such an outstanding young man) but she was blown away by how cool this initiative of yours is. Great work man. In my opinion, this is what hubski is all about.
I love your initiative - it is an amazingly cool idea.
I am late to the game on this one. And if anyone has noticed I may be a little late to the game at Hubski in general, or may have been. I am juggling things including a growing hate of my current/new job and I find that I have less Hubski time (or at least it seems to me) as a result. I did just get a new tattoo. Take a look: I am very happy with it. There is some background information here but I figured I'd elaborate a bit more and do it justice here, so mk here is a better answer. I'm sorry, I don't Hubski mobile well, and I responded to you on mobile. This is generally the summation I've gotten down to tell people (it still takes a few minutes, it's a complex story, but all the better for such a tattoo, I think): So, Jimmy Fallon's father, James. He's a scientist, he studies brains. One day he was in the science-y medical place where they look at brain scans. At that time he was doing two studies: one was a familial, casual personal study looking at brain scans of his family members, I think for genetic diseases or trends, not sure. The other was a formal study of psychopathy. At this point it should be mentioned that the brain scans of psychopaths are visibly different from those of non-psychopaths; different areas "light up," to be a layman about it. Anyway, James is in his study, lookin' at a brain scan and he thinks "Aha! We have a perfect example of a psychopath here! Wonderful!" Then he looked at his notes. Turned out, that scan wasn't from the psychopathy study. It was from his family. So he looked up who it belonged to, and it turned out to be - him! Well, he was nonviolent, he'd never killed or tried to kill anybody, but he did indeed otherwise fall into classic psychopath behaviors. So they interviewed him, and I think he wrote a book. In the first link I provide the Hubski link for the article I read, in which they interviewed James. One of the things they asked him about was love, and romance. And he admits that "even the most hardcore, cold intellectual wants to believe in the romantic notion." He calls it a "disappointment," when he realized he would never have that. That specific paragraph in which they discuss this "romantic notion," as he terms it, really resonated with me. Why? Well, because I try to think I'm that cold, hardcore intellectual. That I don't need love or want love. But deep down at the heart of it, I do. I know I do, though I may deny it or say I'm not capable of being in a relationship or anything. But you know what? If a psychopath can admit that even he wanted love - a person who genuinely probably isn't capable of it, at least as we know it - then I can too, or at least, I should be reminded of that. To me, it means - everyone wants love. No matter how we deny it. :) Poetry - it's coming. Got a really exciting opportunity tomorrow actually, I'm going to go to a poetry workshop group up in Philly for the first time, see how they are. Maybe I will join. I am hoping it's a good opportunity to get regular feedback on my work by people I trust to "know" poetry. (It can be hard to swallow poetry advice from people who don't read it a lot. I admit. I have my sensitivity there.) Nothing new to announce about January 2015, besides the Deer Skin poem which I know you saw went up and my poem over at Cider House Review. Bop Dead City will put two of my poems in their January issue whenever it goes live but to spare the expectation of any of you buying it I may re-post them online once it goes up - linky I still have the goal of self-releasing a hand-bound small selection of poems by end of 1Q2015 but there are 2 poems I want to have feedback on before I'll feel totally content with them so the project has been on hold waiting for tomorrow's workshop (where I am being brave and asking them to look at the first of the two). 2014 was extraordinarily good for publications for me. I am hoping 2015 will match it but not optimistic and as usual not enjoying the submission process. :) Uh, the boyfriend. Hmm. It's not great but I'm hoping it'll improve. Long story short is he thinks/feels we're at 100% but I am not at 100%. I am hoping it gets better. He's making some life choices I am sure he feels are very necessary and important but I am having a hard time agreeing with them. Because he is a dreamer and I am not. But they won't harm him if they don't pan out, it's just frustrating to watch him 'try' knowing he will most likely get nowhere. However I suppose he has to feel like he's done it instead of just - wake up and smell the coffee. Haha. Hard to sum. Not really worth going into more, though. Overall - things are OK. I hope they get better, but they aren't bad and could be much worse. Best wishes to you TNG and thanks for the care._refugee_ -Did you just get a new tattoo? I recall seeing something like that while trying to peruse Hubski on my phone, while my daughter was at dance class. How is the poetry coming along? Any new publications on the horizon? It seems 2014 was a good year for you in that regard, right? How is life with the boyfriend? All good?
The tattoo and story behind it are amazing.
Yes, it is and it's also the kind of thing were I think a lot of people wouldn't really understand/think it's heartless/be rude about it. Sorry about this whole wall of text - when I respond to you it always seems to go from me talking about whatever you were talking about to just ranting about myself for several paragraphs. I am also the type that tells themselves that they are super happy alone. I'm not. I am however pretty sure that dating someone in my class/year would be boring/stupid/make me act like I do not want to act for approval that is meaningless anyway. I was kind of liking a guy and we'd even gone for a really long walk and talked and got along. Then he shared some anti-feminist gamergate stuff. Yeah, that is not happening. The worst is that people my age have gotten engaged. This is the age were people start pairing up into serious relationships. And I'm still single. (The legal age (for sex) in Sweden is 15 and my friends are 1-2 years older than me so not as stupid as it sounds. The friend who has gotten engaged was 15 at the time. You can't get married until 18 thankfully) I say I've never had a boyfriend/girlfrien SO constantly when I think about it I was actually "married" to a guy for several years. I even got a ring. (Those years were grade 2-5, I was 7-10. I had a sister wife, but I was obviously the favorite.)
There's a lot to be said for being single. It provides an enormous amount of personal liberty and you are accountable to no one, except yourself, and maybe-kind-of-sort-of your roommates if you have them, or your parents from the distance of a phone if you've moved out. (I have moved back in though, so even if I were single now, I wouldn't have the exact kind of autonomy that I do cherish.) It also provides endless opportunities for you to prove yourself to you - when your tire goes flat and you have to change it or when you force yourself to eat by yourself in a restaurant and not feel self-conscious or at the very least feel self-conscious but accept and do not give in to the self-consciousness. All sorts of things. You learn who you really are when you are single, I think, at least some aspects of yourself that a relationship can cloud or cover up. And casual dating can be fun too, loads of attention, no responsibility, no need to answer to anyone; you're all just having fun. (That gets tiresome, though. That can be painful, for one or both parties involved - not always you, by all means, but it's not fun to deal with someone else's hurt either, and if you're a guilty sort you can find yourself feeling that way about it.) It is important to achieve happiness on one's own, too, or first, as you probably know. But that happiness surely doesn't negate a desire for either. Anti-feminism is a complete and total turn-off for me. I totally get you there. Don't bother with that dude. You seem to have an idea that dating right now wouldn't be a good idea for you, maybe due to the limited pool, and/or also because you don't think you'd like how you'd act. Well, truth: I don't like how I act in romantic relationships. That doesn't mean I get all bitchy and mean or anything, in fact often the opposite: it is not easy for me to admit I care and I often get frustrated when my caring for another person causes me to act in a way that doesn't align with my underlying wants/desires. Compromise, right, you know? When you date, if you still worry you might become hung up over a guy's approval in lieu of your own sensibilities, just monitor yourself. Watch your own behavior and assess if, and how, it changes. Keep an eye out for the kind of behavior you don't want, but remember too that relationships do require give and take and that if you work too hard to avoid what you fear (puppy-begging for approval) you may overreact and instead seem cold, hard, indifferent, etc, and that will impact your relationships negatively too. The solution in the long term is not to avoid relationships but to learn how to navigate them, and yourself, successfully. If you don't like how a relationship begins to impact you, save the you that you value, leave, and do your best to move on. It isn't always easy of course. Emotions make people want to stay. It hurts to leave. That being said I think it's a wiser person who opts consciously not to date due to verbalized reasons than one who either jumps into dating in youth because of Disney movies and romances, or who avoids it out of fear or the idea that one is undesirable, etc. You are young and you have plenty of time and no, there's no need to get started dating now if you think it's unwise. If you really do think it would derail you from your priorities it's even kind of smart - but sometime you're going to have to let go a little bit :) As for engagements - oh honey. OH, honey. Five of my ex-boyfriends are married. 4 to the next girl they dated after me. I am the female good luck Chuck, haha. It is interesting to observe but I know it's not what I want right now. Mostly I get a kick out of all the weddings I'm not invited to. 15's way too young in my opinion - but then again, I'm 25 and don't feel quite old enough for it either :)
I think 15 is an okay age - certainly an age were you can comfortably say that things under that are rape even if the girl said yes because dude - she's fourteen. I have had terrible dating luck. My last "boyfriend" was when I was 11. (I actually think about that and go "Ehh... I was making out with a guy? At 11? Seriously? That's a bit..." He was twelve by the way.) My last actual dating thing ended with me playing Fable 3 with him and he randomly pulling out his well... I didn't stop to ask what he called it but he did say "Can it come inside?". After I let out a horrified no he asked why. Yeah.
He still tries to talk to me regularly. And tries to sit next to me on the bus. I do want to date - but not enough to go out of my way to do it. Also due to a really touchy-feely friendship with one girl I'm pretty sure most people think I'm gay & spoken for Which doesn't really help the dating aspect. Also I have a chronic bitch-face.
I feel like I could relate so much to this. Also - if one is talking stereotypes I wear a dress but is loud and argumentative and such and I sometimes find myself holding that back when with a guy I kind of like and I really hate doing that. Also I love that poem now.it is not easy for me to admit I care and I often get frustrated when my caring for another person causes me to act in a way that doesn't align with my underlying wants/desires.
Ha, I have a best friend/former girlfriend and a LOT of people think we are together even though they have never known us while we were together because we spend so much time together, show up in the same places, etc. Also that's just a weird relationship in general tbh. Uh, that guy sounds like what he showed you. That's right I said it, dick. Unsolicited advice that is only somewhat related: if you ever find yourself worrying about whether or not to do something like tell a dude off because if you do, it'll be "mean" or "not nice" or you'll be a "frigid bitch" - fuck that asshole, fuck everyone who says you shouldn't do it because you're mean, and tell them off. Hearing about the loud and argumentative makes me feel like you may already have an awareness of that advice though :) Chronic bitch face! I like to call it "active bitch face" as opposed to "resting bitch face." Nah man. My bitch face is active. It's a very great poem. I memorized it once, but I'm afraid in the long run only about half of it stuck.
I think you've made a wonderful choice for your tattoo. And a nice font, too! The idea of a tattoo has always allured me. Specifically the idea that something matters enough to embroider your epidermis, so to speak. How did you get started with tattoos? When is something important enough to become a part of you? Besides the fact that I'm probably not cool enough for tattoos, I probably wouldn't be able to settle on a design. I'd have a hard time finding something that matters so much and looks good on me.
Congrats!!!!!!!! IRC would be awesome! Maybe next weekend or perhaps later this week, I'll let all of you decide on when. Perhaps we need to rekindle the #hubskidrinkclub? Even you non-drinkers can pour a cup of tea and pony up to the bar.
Fun learning from yesterday: You can make a ridiculous amount of thai iced tea for ridiculously cheap if you just make it yourself and it's ridiculously easy to make. Tea and sweet and condensed milk for a quick and easy treat. The substitution of generic grocer-brand chai for Ceylon tea did not diminish it in the slightest.
Dude I AM still roasting coffee. Also my palate is developing to the point where I can tell the region the coffee came from more or less by taste. That is ridiculous and kind of funny to me. In spite of myself, I now have strong origin preferences (love me some Costa Ricans) from various roasters, and the stupid flowery language people use to describe artisanal roasts make sense as a descriptor and upon tasting. I'm still a bit surprised by this.
DC is great! I'm the "heir apparent" for the officially designated full-time job that will be opening very soon, as a good friend and helpful coworker will be leaving. So from there I will go from abject poverty to... A level that I would consider comfortable at any point in my life, I assume. I will be making more than my mother ever has, and more than my father ever did while he was still around and before keeping us financially hostage. I can't fathom going from making less than 15k a year to what it will be. It will also mean that I am entitled to tuition remission, meaning free education finally. I'm chomping at the bit, but it's still a month or two away from fruition. arguewithatree and I will be getting our own place probably in the next year, which is exciting to think about after years of living in shared houses under, in my case, abusive and bloodsucking landlords, or in her case, almost being made into a skin suit by a violent and clearly unwell roommate (she can fill you in there.) She also has a car now, so we're going to be free to explore the states around us soon. Perhaps NC will be in the visitation queue soon. I hope you make it out here soon! Having a second DC meetup would be fantastic as well. The city is lovely around March when the cherry blossoms are in bloom, but winter is still my favorite when everything is covered in a fine layer of snow.
When I was 31 or 32 years old I went from the job I had to one that paid me 3X's as much overnight. The key is to not change any of your behaviors. Honestly, if you can live like you have been for 3 more years and take the incremental income and invest it wisely, you will be set for the rest of your life. OR You could get a really nice place, start eating at really nice restaurants, start buying nice clothes etc and basically end up feeling like you're still just getting by. don't do that. Also, CONGRATS!!!!
Honestly, I don't see how I really could change my lifestyle in any significant ways. I know I'll buy more records and comic books, but that's not anything at all. Other than that, we're both very low-energy people who don't spend much. We will, of course, be outdoors and camping a lot more, because we'll have the spare change for the incidentals. And sweet, sweet vacation time. My big goal and gift to myself after I get more settled into the position will be a week or more backpacking trip in Montana, starting with a train ride to get there. I figure sometime around September of this year or March/June of next would be the estimated time for it. So I have something to plan for.
Well, hopefully I've given you a proper guide on how to take a train to or from MT.
psst...tng...your inquiries are magic, two poems were accepted today unexpectedly. I also told the bf to please also apply to bank jobs and not just graphic design and that he was equally qualified for both. I think he's mad at me now. I don't think me getting poems accepted this morning helps. Bet it burns pretty hard when the person who tells you that "it's worthwhile to follow your dreams but only if you've built a foundation of skill" basically demonstrates the truth of this statement via a fresh success in her dream/passion the exact same day that statement was made. Bet it does. You know what doe? When it comes to making my dream the realest I can make it, I fuckin' do that shit and I make it happen. It hurts, it sucks, it's never enough, but I git 'er done. If he should listen to anyone about how to achieve his dream career - well, I'm saying I'm a good candidate for that, is all, but the man don't want to listen. The man wants to reach out and be handed his dream, and that's not how dreams happen.
Why stick around with this guy?The man wants to reach out and be handed his dream, and that's not how dreams happen.
yeah, you've gotta go get it if you want it.
Breaking up is hard to do; I'd prefer to believe I'm projecting here; maybe he just needs to make this sort of mistake and fail miserably in order to wake up and realize that dreams not only require passion, but hard work and action; I'd prefer to believe my thoughts and feelings I've been having since last night's convo with lil will dissipate; right now I kind of don't think I really need to pile on more stress and the sadness that will follow; so on.
Hei Steve! So nice to round up folks -- du er helt topps! Viking camp is purchased and I've moved in to the really great apartment over the business. We've begun taking out stuff we don't want and decorating with math artwork. Meetings continue with the county and state to get contracts to bring in teachers and classes in the fall. Looks like the money will be there. It's an amazing property. It has a value of $1.3 million. I bought it from the county for $0.27 million. I think I just became a millionaire. Weird. There's a lot to do right now, and I'm still working full-time at my day job. I'd post some pictures when I get the time and energy. I've just made a couple of sculptures I'm proud of. Here they are. The pair is called "The Fox and the Mouse", one is made from 60 wooden salad forks and one from 60 wooden spoons, they are polyhedral duals of each other so they have all kinds of splendid symmetric properties, and they're about 1 meter in diameter and cast the best shadows. I have a lot of ideas for other art projects I'll be working on to make this place special. Here's my company's website if you want to see some funny Norwegian letters. And a cool animated logo.
The spoon/fork sculptures are beautiful mike, well done! Please do post photos of the camp as you transition it to the math camp. I look forward to seeing images of it and the artwork you use to spruce up the place. I hope that the move went well, it's not easy to uproot a family. Did you sell your old home? Mike, the former trapeze artist turned millionaire mathematician with all his assets tied up in viking camps. -That's one hell of a resume sir! Du er ikke så verst selv pal
Woah, your company sounds amazing. So are you from Norway? I can kind of read your website but I'm terrible at understanding other nordic languages. I would have loved it if my school had the kind of stuff it looks like you are selling. Maybe it eventually will - we sometimes got new exiting educational stuff with weird Norwegian letters.
No shoutout, but I'll share anyways. Started running again, went back and forth across the smoots. I've normally been a: go-slow-do-hills-don't-pay-attention-to-pace-just-don't-stop-running runner, but I figure if I'm starting from scratch again, I might as well try something new. I've heard before about HIIT, but I've never tried it before for running. I'm gonna try doing it 2x a week in addition to other exercises. Will report back if I don't end up breaking / fracturing / spraining my ankle within a week!
Nice to hear from you thundara! You were actually on the list I wrote out of people to shout-out to and I was going to ask you how things are going with your work/science and how life in Beantown was? Glad to hear you are running, you're inspiring! I need to begin and just need to take the plunge and effing do it already. I have to begin training for a 10 mile race in April.
Science is progressing at a snail's rate due to the fact that I am book and computer-smart, but very not at all pipette smart. Still, book-wise, I've learned more about Alzheimer's disease in the past two weeks than in the last 6 years. I've just started taking care of a line of cells, which will soon bring with it the fun of having to change their diapers on the weekends. They're derived from boobies, which make for easy practice, but hopefully in the next month I can start to culture neurons as well! Beantown itself has been pretty great. I like the cold, and the combination of little wind and increased humidity made it easy to walk around in a t-shirt today :-) Good luck with the April race, you seem way more consistent about your running, so I'm sure you'll make it!
Yo, I worked on Alzheimer's in undergrad, what's your focus? And I assume you're in grad school (I may have missed the memo), what year? Also, culturing neurons is a bitch and a half, godspeed with that.
Glad to hear you are working on stuff that you seem interested in. Today was GORGEOUS here in NC. 60 degrees, blue skies and a gentle wind, just chilly enough to remind you of the season. I loved it. I took my son outside with me while I worked in the yard, while my wife took my daughter to a movie. Spent the afternoon at the park as a family, where I showed my daughter how to use a stick to draw a map in the dirt. We totally stole the treasure from the pirates and returned it to the magical rock of Chapel Hill. -TMI? As for the running, I'm anything but consistent. Ebbs and flows. I miss having cliffelam around. It's important to have a running buddy, at least for me.
Looking at the list (yes I hand wrote a list) of the people I wanted to shout-out to and realized that a bunch are missing in the post. One other is rezzeJ, I want to know how your music is going? Anything new to share? Also coffeesp00ns, how is your music going? How are you in general? 2015 is a going to be a big year for you. We are with you pal!
Music's going great! preparing for my grad recital in april, which I'm really stoked for. generally, I am very good. Today's a down day, but in comparison to even 2 years ago? This down day would have been an up day. 2 more appointments with a counsellor until I can get a referral to an endocrinologist for HRT. it's been lots of steps, but I'm on the road and it feels great.
I am currently in the middle of deadline disillusionment, so can't share anything just yet. One I have the mark back I'll be sure to share it. On the other hand, I do finally have a finished acoustic/voice song of my own. I penned the lyrics and everything It was quite some time ago that you requested to here my voice, so maybe it's high time I record it.
Hi! I've also been off Hubski more than on as of late, school got pretty busy there at the end of the semester. I'm done now, thank goodness. Hopefully I can spend some more time here in the coming weeks. I'm so looking forward to fleeing this desolate hole! OK, that's a bit of an exaggeration, but seriously, I can't wait to go see the world. Or at least New York. Did I mention how pumped I am to be a short bus ride from NYC, the cultural hub of the western world? I kind of want to spend half my weekends at Blue Note. Gah! 7 months, man. You better believe I'm counting down. Nothing about it specifically freaks me out, but I guess just the idea of being totally independent is a bit daunting. I really am excited though. Re: drums -- I still haven't found my mic, it's a real bummer. If it takes much longer I may just have to buy a new one. PS Soundtrack to this thread
1. Love your outlook on getting to NYC. 2. Great track, thanks for the tunes 3. What kind of mic are you looking for? What were you using?
I just want you to know that flattery will get you absolutely everywhere. Not much to catch up on. The semester is just getting started so I have nothing to bitch about except my apathy towards all of my classes. I use Trello to keep track of all of my shit now. Everything. Everything.: But also classes and projects. I need to buy a physical board to put notecards on, though. I was going to write (read: word vomit) a chapter of Hubskina but I'm drawing for it instead.
Haha sorry about not not posting any photos as of late. I wanted to post on the photochallenge but the timing was not the best. I keep thinking I want to revive the photochallenge but I feel like there's no way I can keep it "regular" cause unlike many of you people, i'm shit at time management. Unfortunately no travel planned anytime soon (unless you count the trip we have planned to burlington for a concert) cause I gotta get some work experience going. Looking for an internship this summer but I've been told it's a bit too early to apply. So networking time! Printed some business cards this morning: Quality is not great (laser printer on paper made for inkjet) so I might get them printed at a shop. Last couple weeks have been great, I like my classes for the first time ever and have a rock climbing class tomorrow! How is little Atticus? Getting into toddler territory?
I really appreciate you reaching out and am honored that Papa Hubski is interested in the goings on of my life.
Living in Oregon has been incredible. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can.
A week after I graduated, my fiancee Kathryn and I packed up and drove West. No plans, no jobs, no housing. We stopped for a bit in KC (where we grew up) to see family and friends and continued on. We stopped in Cheyenne (which I don't recommend, Sketchiest place I've ever been) and in Boise before arriving in Portland the next day. It was as we pulled into a hotel in Boise that we received a call that we'd have a place to live for July. The housing market in Portland is very saturated and it was only because someone dropped out of a sublet that we had a place to stay. The day after we arrived Kathryn had an interview at a Montessori school in the SW where she nabbed a position as an assistant guide (in Montessori they're "guides" not "teachers").
We had a few days to spare before moving into our sublet in SW Portland so Kathryn and I went to camp on the coast for a few days. The Oregon coast is unlike anything else I've ever seen. It's so ominous yet majestic. I highly recommend seeing it.
We moved into our sublet and had such a great time hanging out with our new roommates. We were taking the place of a med student who was going to Peru to study a specific bacteria and our roommates were two med students and a recent transplant from Ecuador. Kathryn got a job for a few months working at Sur La Table (where she had been working weekends in IL) and I got a gig working at a cell phone repair shop in NW Portland. Since I had done that for three years when I was in school it was a cinch to get the job. It was about a 15 minute bike from the SW sublet through downtown Portland to the cell phone shop. Biking in Portland is awesome. There are so many bike lanes and cars are very aware of bikes. Biking is the fastest mode of transportation in Portland, unless you're going from one extreme to the other.
Kathryn didn't have too many hours during this time and I only worked two days a week so we explored as much as we could. I networked like crazy and really got to meet some cool musicians. Before moving I had contacted a guy on Craigslist about playing with him and the two months before I moved to Fossil him and I played weekly, performing once at an open mic at a hostel in the NW.
After our sublet in the SW ran out, we moved to a sublet in the SE. Again, the housing market is so saturated we interviewed the last day of our sublet, were accepted, and moved the next day.
Whatever notion you have about Portland is materialized on the East side of the Willamette River which runs down the middle. The West is suit-and-tie, the East is as free-spirited as it comes. At this new sublet, we lived with three rats, four cats, a rabbit, a dog, and six other humans (two of which slept on the back porch). They were a vegan household, which I’d have been cool to try out except that the cats were always on the counters, getting their tails on everything. It’s good to mention here that it was while living here that I learned I have an allergy to cats. Our room was sick though. It belonged to a couple with a son and the woman was a painter who had filled the room with her fantastic works of art. In fact, Kathryn got me one of her paintings we always admired for my birthday.
This new sublet was a bit further from work so it took me about 35 minutes to get to work each day. But man, was it worth it. My route took me along the Eastbank Esplanade, a beautiful path that runs right along the river. It was beautiful. It was on a bike that I realized, similar to in Paris, lovers put locks in the bridge. Later on Kathryn and I put a lock on.
Towards the middle of July, I got a call from a job I had applied for in May. I was to continue interviewing for a position with AmeriCorps teaching music in a rural Oregon town. Fast forward a few months, and I’ve now been living in Fossil, OR since August. I have K-8 (amounting to 32 students) Monday - Thursday (the school district is can’t afford to have school on Fridays). I teach private lessons to about 15 students on a variety of instruments I’ve picked up along the way. Working with kids is incredible. They’re so positive and so full of energy. What the school system does through their domestication is a true tragedy.
Living in a rural town is quite the experience. The population of Fossil, including those in the hills, amounts to about 475. Aside from my roommate, 30, and myself there are two other young adults in town. Having this amount of free time has resulted in so many new discoveries, both in talent and personal.
With all this time, you’re really left along with your thoughts. I most certainly had a fair amount of inner demons that I couldn’t have worked through without Kathryn’s support. Truly, without her love I may not have been typing this right now.
I’ve picked up many hobbies. I’ve rekindled my love of reading. I’ve dabbled in charcoal pastel and acrylic painting. I’ve written a lot of music, of which I recorded most when I went back to KC over Winter Break. Life is good when I allow it to be.
Over Winter Break, Kathryn and I did find a venue and set a date for our wedding. It’ll be on a farm right outside KC on July 19th of this year. In an effort to save money, her and I have been hand making our save the dates. They’ve really turned out awesome. We split the work and then swapped when we got halfway. Wedding planning takes a lot of work, but it’s so much fun.
I think that’s about everything since I’ve moved to Oregon. I may have left out a few details, but if you read this much you’ve got a pretty good idea about what I’ve been up to the past few months.
Thank you for this, I enjoyed hearing all about it. It sounds like you are in the right place for you and Kathryne. Congratulations on setting a date and good luck with those "save the dates." You paint such a great visual of Portland, I'd love to make it out there one day. Also, I feel us regarding the cats, I'm also allergic. -I don't think I'm missing out on much though.
Thanks,they've been a blast. If you do, you'd most certainly have a place to stay.
Haha, yessss, I am at the end of the list! That means someone else was at the end of the list but you were afraid you might offend them, so you put me there to shield poor AshShields because, like a supernatural godlike being, I am beyond offense. That's what I'll tell myself as I rock myself to sleep with a bottle of wine in one hand and a loaded pop-gun in the other. Hum, next book! I'll have to get back to you on the date, but I'm hoping soon. It's been three bloody years in the writing, so I'm keen to get it out there. If you PM me I can give you the super secret details. I think this one has the same sense of humor as Radium Baby, though there are more explosions. You'd hope so, at least. No-one wants a second book that's not as good as the first. Probably why Harper Lee never wrote anything else — poor woman knows no-one is ever going to write a novel that's better than To Kill a Mockingbird.
Actually, it turns out she'd just lost it.
Oh wow — this is amazing! I was a bit skeptical at first, because you know, how good could it be if it's been 50 years since the author wrote her masterpiece? I'm not saying it would be bad, but if you write two novels 50 years apart, they may as well be written by two different people. But the article reckons the new one was written at the same time as Mockingbird, so maybe it really will be like Mockingbird II. I'll be dead curious to see how it looks.
TNG! I've been a little busy as of late. Semester is over in a week though, then one more and I am free of the prison high school I have been in for three and a half years. I've been accepted to four colleges, waiting to hear back from the other four. They're all up in the northeast so I can continue to ski. I'm really excited to leave but terrified I won't make any friends or be motivated enough to go anywhere. I get to go out west to ski in a month and later in the year I'm going to Spain and Portugal for a week, so that should be a lot of fun. Other than that, I'm not doing much. Just the same old stuff finishing up the school year. How have you been? What plans does the upcoming year have for you?
c_hawk, congrats on being accepted to three schools. That first acceptance letter must be one hell of a relief, no matter how strong a student you are. It's nice to know you will have options. Enjoy the skiing and the travel, I'm envious. Thanks for asking how I am doing, I appreciate that. Honestly, I'm doing pretty well. I'm a lucky guy and I would do well to recognize that more often than I do. This year, I have a trip to Vancouver scheduled, I'll probably be back in Michigan (b_b, mk, ecib) in late February and I have some regional travel planned: Asheville NC, Pinehurst NC -for pleasure. I'll probably plan a trip to the Carolina coast in the summer too. I'm going to try and finagle a trip to Solid Sound festival this year too, but its right on the heels of the Vancouver trip and I'm not sure I'll be able to swing it. I'm attempting to get a couple of press passes for Hubski and if I can't go (assuming I get the passes) I plan on holding a contest for Hubski users to get them. If they get them, they have to write, extensively about the show. -I still don't know if I'll get the tix though and if so, I may actually use them myself and write about the show. That's about all I've got going on. Thanks for asking and for your update, it was nice to read.
Hey tng! Not in Washington yet, I still have one semester of college left, then I'll be home for a month and then I move to Washington and start working in July. However, my first week of work is orientation which is at their corporate headquarters on the east coast, so there will be a lot of flying in early July. I'm very, very excited to start because I'm lucky enough to have gotten a job with a company I want to work for, in an area that's exciting to me. Plus, the benefits are great and it's a career development program which should be an amazing first job that will give me a leg up in the future. That said, I'm also kind of terrified because it affords me the opportunity to completely reinvent myself if I want to. There will be a lot of exploration, that's for sure. How have you been? Outside of busy. How did working with the VP you had never worked with before go?
Seconding asking about AshShields.
Anecdote that illustrates my life in general: Last week, August (our son for those who care and I don't talk to on a regular basis) came down with his umpteenth lung-fuckage and had to be taken wheezing at seventy respirations per minute to the doctor. Turns out he has asthma and needs steroids whenever he gets a cold. Until he's like five. But it wasn't too tough to take him, since we'd already scheduled a dr. visit for our oldest daughter, who felt like she had to pee every ten minutes... for the last ten days. Don't judge, time is scarce and we got to it as quickly as we could. Our dog picked that exact day to shake his head so hard he broke a vessel in his ear, filling it with blood and swelling it up to the size and approx shape of a beautifully stuffed empanada, requiring a trip to the vet for a very involved and very expensive surgery, and leaving him with a shunt dripping all sorts of juices into his e-collar. For five days. Leaving our home smelling like a slaughterhouse. Our youngest daughter escaped all of it free of any health issues, but it turns out she's fucking terrified of our dog when he's wearing the e-collar, and she's spent the past five days screaming in horror every time our poor beleaguered Banjo gets too close, which is like always since our house is "cozy" and our dog is "a horse." That's how my week was, Steve, and that's how my life has been, and that, coincidentally, is why you haven't seen much of me 'round these parts. But I'm having a damn good time working on some music that's been kicked my way, so there's always something to look forward to. And while I'm updating, rezzeJ, re. New Years resolutions: I've been talking less (for proof, check comment history), listening more, and I've cut my drinking down to maybe one beer a night, with a two-drink night once a week if I'm feeling cray.
Damn son, when it rains it pours in the fuffle household! I'm sorry you had to endure all of that, most notably really sorry to hear about little August's asthma. That's a real bummer. People say that we will look back on these times, when our kids were this little and we had to do all this running around, changing of diapers, consoling after nosebleeds etc. with fondness, and I think they're probably right, but sometimes that's pretty hard to believe, isn't it...!
Edit: for what it's worth to those reading this, I have seen a video of his daughter freaking out when the dog comes near. It's pretty damn cute, but then I bet it's not so cute after the one hundredth time it's occurred.
Steve! How's it going? I hope work doesn't grind you down too much - glad to here that the kids are good, though! It's funny - I was just tidying up in my room and was looking at the two TNG albums, thinking about how I haven't been on Hubski in so long, and the first thing I see is this post. I kind of drifted away a while ago and have only lurked occasionally since. My bare feet are currently hibernating - it's been really cold over the past few months; I think I've only barefooted outside twice since November. But with the weather just about starting to get warmer, my feet will be coming back out. The longest trek I've done is the Camino de Santiago which I'm sure I mentioned when I was last on Hubski - about 950k, I think, or something like that. we started in early October and finished in mid-November. My initial plan to do it entirely barefoot was thwarted when I discovered just how gravelly the paths are; in the end, I did about 350k barefoot. I'm still happy about that, but I intend to do my next camino entirely barefoot - and I'm definitely doing it again, because it was a fantastic experience. The country was beautiful and the people I met were wonderful; I really think some of the friendships made will last for a long time. In fact, we had a meetup here in Ireland at the start of January. Actually, two of our friends who we met on the camino - and who met each other there - have gotten engaged! And the fiancé is opening an English school in Korea that my girlfriend and I plan on teaching in for a year or so. It's very hard to talk about the camino beyond saying "it was amazing!" because it all really amounts to "we were in a lovely place" or "we met a really cool person" or "we had a great time"; kind of had-to-be-there stories. Still, I highly recommend it to anyone. I was going to make a Hubski post but most of our photos were lost (along with the camera). Not much is happening lately - after the camino, I had to settle down to a cold and uneventful winter; the camino ate up more or less all of my funds, and with English teaching being so seasonal I basically haven't worked since September. Thankfully, I got a bit of odd work in January and some weekend stuff back home, but more importantly I'm back teaching tomorrow! At least for now. It's finicky work. That's part of the reason why I'm excited to go to Korea in a few months - somewhere different, but also with consistent work so I'm not broke half of the year. I'm glad to be back working and feeling productive because lately I've been in a bit of a slump. I've been waking up late and spending most of the day farting around doing nothing; I also feel like my brain is turning to mush since I left university. But I've started getting up earlier and reading more, so I'm starting to feel better. I missed your annual New Year's Resolution thread, so I'll make up for it here. I have the same goals as the past two years - running (and sticking with it) and playing mandolin (and sticking with it). I also want to read more - I think last year I read something like ten books - this year I'm hoping to read five times as many. And lastly, I intend on giving up smoking - I don't want to be a Closet Smoker any more! So, basically, I have the most stereotypical New Year's goals ever (and apparently have learned nothing from those of the past few years). That's pretty much it. It's great to see that things are going well with other Hubskiers. I hope to see more of you around here!
It's so nice to hear from you, thank you for taking the time to actually catch me up on what you have been up to. Your trek sounds like it had quite the impact on you, and obviously on one of your friends too. What a neat way to meet your future spouse. Will you also be teaching in Korea? Where in Korea will you be? What are some of the things you are most looking forward to in Korea? I'll admit, I'm always envious of all of you younger people on Hubski traveling the globe, unencumbered. As for those New Year's resolutions, there's a reason that they are cliché, they are important things to focus on, right? Especially quitting smoking. Smoking is something that I've enjoyed off and on my entire life. Well, that's not true I suppose I should say my entire adult life. Five-year-old thenewgreen wasn't much of a smoker. But I've always been able to only have a one or two here and there and not pick it up again. I suppose I'm lucky in that regard. In this day and age, why not just use e-cigs? Good luck with it all!!
Howdy tng! Sorry, been busy as a one-legged man in an ass-kicking contest lately. Been doing all of the above generally, but not time enough for any! I've no doubt missed lots of good hubski discussion due to simply skimming it for a few minutes per day. Bees are doing fine, I'll probably rob them of some honey soon. One hive only - did have two, but one absconded over the winter for reasons unknown. The boat trailer needs some work so sadly I've been unable to enjoy that (no time anyway so maybe it's for the best). Thanks for all your great contributions to the hubski community, my friend!
Thanks for checking in thenewgreen! I appreciate your dedication to the site and had noticed that your use had slowed down a bit I figured it was due to a loving family and a real life. I am glad to hear that I was right! The podcast is much more than a regular podcast (i.e. an interview format or similar) and I'm currently in the process of finding money for studio time and hiring actors. Our second story's script is pretty much done with some retouching needed and our first story's script ... well I gotta make some noise about it cause I'm getting anxious.
I have basically discovered podcasts several years late to the party and is now addicted. Yours sounds amazing. PLEASE, PLEASE let me/us know as soon as it is out there.
(EDIT: the coolest hubski thing you may have missed while you were busy.)
Thanks, I did miss that post, but was aware of the fact that Complexity had the initiative going. See my response to him in the thread. My wife agrees, it's bad ass.
You rock, man. My short term travel plans involve Iceland. Longer term, who knows? I'd love to move to Germany; I'm taking steps to make that happen. Next week I'm gonna take the Foreign Service Officer Test, which is the first step toward doing that as a career, which I have no idea if I want but it sounds damn cool so I'm doing it. It's glamorous like being a spy right? Whatever. Life is pretty much the same. The sicknasty Cajun place around the corner from my apartment started doing dollar pints of the local brewhouse's ales, so I've been there a lot. Ya know how it is. I'm just livin'. Hope everything is going awesome for you -- how did the day with the company veep go?
Anyways, good luck man! The day with the veep seemed shitty, but the feedback I received was largely positive outside of "he doesn't fill out his TPS reports properly," but the fact that I can sell the pants off anyone else is what matters. Thanks for asking.Next week I'm gonna take the Foreign Service Officer Test, which is the first step toward doing that as a career, which I have no idea if I want but it sounds damn cool so I'm doing it.
-I have a friend in the foreign service and she is a BAD ASS. Her life is pretty kick ass. They're going to Montenegro soon, which sucks because they're becoming good friends. But, this is their lifestyle, they live somewhere for 1-2 years and then move. Her husband was CIA and is now a venture capitalist, he made a bunch of money from a financial services company he founded. -Cool guy. Really in to bitcoin and crypto. I'll miss them.
My applications for grad school are in and the teaching is going pretty well (though I am getting bored with it again). I just started working more hours and was in a position to start saving some money but it turns out that I need a root canal, which the temporary Massachusetts healthcare does not cover. It does cover an extraction, but no implant or anything and as I am in a face-to-face business, I can't afford to be missing a tooth, even if the state says I can. As for the ladies . . . well . . . I have to say that I am not a fan of internet dating, though I can see why people do it. I've met some women I've thought were attractive enough, but no real chemistry so far. There seems to be a whole lot of fear in Boston's dating scene and it's kind of bumming me out, to be honest. I'm hoping that all the groundwork I've been doing since moving back to Boston will start to pay off, but if not, I'll just have to come up with a plan B (again)!
If life's plans took you in a straight line, it wouldn't be worth it. But I understand the need to be in a place where having a good dental plan is part of the equation. Also, not having teeth would make the dating scene even more distrustful of you. There's nothing more disconcerting to a young lady than a toothless, nomadic poet. You'll be fine though. You're 10x smarter than I ever was, better looking (damn you) and you seem pretty ambitious for an artist. I see good things in your future...but if not, I'll just have to come up with a plan B (again)!
First of all, I hope to know you for many years. Secondly, if in 10 years you aren't at least on plan "Q," I'll be disappointed. I fully plan to be on plan "J" by the end of next year.
Hey brother. I'm psyched as well. Will definitely take a day off to show you around. The weather will be fantastic outside so there will be plenty to do and see. I'm especially excited to beat you at tennis, so bring a racket if you can. I have a spare that you can use just in case but I don't want it to become an excuse for your multiple, multiple losses in a row. Don't forget your swimsuit too. We can go swimming in the ocean after the match. And who knows, we might run into a few beers along the way.
Hey long time no chat. MISkeptics is going well. We're set to pass the 500 member mark in Meetup soon (currently 496) and we're starting to make the push to go non-profit. How are things in your universe going?Life as a skeptic, never trusting anyone... must be rough. -Just kidding. How is the Michigan Skeptics group doing? Have your numbers grown over the years since we first met? That's quite a lot of work to keep something like that going. My hats off to you.
In no way is this question meant to disparage your achievement, because it's really a great accomplishment to have so many subscribed to your Meetup, but what percentage of that 500 actually come to meetings? I only ask because I belong to several Meetup groups that I've not yet visited after a full year of weekly emails.
Hey Steve! It was no trouble at all making the best of 2014 list. The opposite, really, as it was nice to read the best that this place has to offer. I'm back home safely, but I'm already planning for a summer roadtrip to Sweden / Norway with my friends. Gonna a sweet two weeks if it all works out. Before that, though, I'll be busy with graduating and writing my thesis. I won't be bored, that's for sure. Thanks for thinking about everyone!
I wish I would have taken advantage of my ability to travel more when I was younger, you are doing it right my friend! I hope you provide a trip report! Safe travels and best of luck with that thesis.