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user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "you are muted here"

    -Hubski is not Reddit. We do not want to be Reddit. Reddit is Reddit and they're damn good at being Reddit. I have a high opinion of what Reddit has accomplished. I very much enjoy their AMA's and other aspects of the site and there are certainly places where great conversations occur, all the time.

When you start claiming to be a 'community for thoughtful conversations' you immediately start competing with reddit. How you choose to characterize that competition doesn't change that.

And reddit tends to have better conversations than Hubski because of the level playing field.

    -A good idea is a good idea and much of the functionality of Hubski has come from new users making suggestions. Old user/New User it's a pretty level playing field.

This has nothing to do with my point. We're talking about the creation and distribution of content, and being 'an old hand' on this site automatically means you're going to be more successful with both. On Reddit everyone gets a single vote to help decide if content should stay or go.

Two completely different ideas and I'm astounded that you've conflated the two in your response to me.

    That said, the idea has ZERO to do with reddit and everything to do with new users having the same questions about the site each time we have an influx.

Not true. The idea was originally put forth by Klein as a reaction to the reddit influx that resulted when reddit changed the way they displayed up/downvotes. I don't personally care where the 'biggest influx' comes from, I know what prompted klein to make the suggestion.

I have personally had the term 'redditor' spit at me a few times. Or was this my imagination?

    If we had an anti-reedit sentiment here, we would be a self-loathing group as the many of the users here hail from there -some of my personal favorites. AND many of the users here actively use both sites, and why wouldn't they? Both sites have their own virtues. It's not a competition.

It's implied that people who dislike reddit have been on reddit in the past, and in fact, most of the point I made in my original response is predicated on the fact that a very large portion of the Hubski's population originally hailed from reddit (including the founders).

    I think you've made it clear where you'd rather spend your time. In fact, I recall you mentioning in a comment that you would no longer be on Hubski, yet you return. Why is that? Do you secretly dig it here?

Another one, that's 2 for 1 (see https://hubski.com/pub?id=166271).

Strange how a site so big on discourse seems to have one of the admins falling into the trap of attacking someone for being open about their opinions of the site.

You fix the muting issue, and you'll see me being a lot more positive towards this site.





thenewgreen  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Strange how a site so big on discourse seems to have one of the admins falling into the trap of attacking someone for being open about their opinions of the site.
where did I attack you?
user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I quoted it.

Meriadoc  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Look, man. TNG is too nice to attack people, but I'm really not, and I'm reeeeeally sick of seeing these comments pop up all the time. If you don't like the way things are run, actively involve yourself by making suggestions for making it better or not. Not this "I have a low opinion of the site" and "it's not as good as reddit" bullshit.

If you don't like it here, don't be here. We like it here, and I don't see anything of value lost from people who's seemingly main purpose of being on this site is to complain about it leaving. I value the opinions of the people here and what they have to say, I don't mute people who express their opinions, but I would for spammers and straight up assholes.

user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

If I link you to atleast 3 different comments of mine making suggestions for the site, will you apologize to me?

Meriadoc  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Not a chance in hell. Because you aren't constructive in them. You're just a dick about it. There's no real suggestions, just complaining. I just went through your entire 28 day history of shitposting. Racism, sexism, bigotry, intentionally missing the point and making everything about you. I don't associate with garbage that makes safe places like we have here less secure, even when your intention is clearly to get a rise out of people.

People like you are the reason why there isn't enough representation across the web, because you're the kind of asshole that makes it impossible for them to do it.

When I made my previous comment, I knew you were an ass already, but I assumed you were at least someone to be responded to with some respect, perhaps a level of having you stay on the site if you understood how we went about things, but now, I don't give a shit. I don't want your kind around here in the first place, but when you've clearly gone on a tear for a month and have angered my friends and made them uncomfortable, I no longer will tolerate it.

You're officially the first person I will mute after this conversation has run its course.

user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    and have angered my friends and made them uncomfortable, I no longer will tolerate it.

And therein lies the real danger of the mute feature. It's not really about whether or not I've made constructive suggestions to this site, it's about whether or not your friends find my comments uncomfortable.

And this should be the litmus test for whether or not I even get to join in on a conversation.

Here, let me be an asshole now.

Folks like you are the reason atrocities happen. The fundamental lack of fairness to people that are different than yourself.

now I'm truly terrible, but, say what you will, I have made many suggestions for changes that would make this site more in-line with what I expect from it.

As you learned when you read through my history, that is definitely not an accusation that can be leveled at me unless you're ignorant.

user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    And this should be the litmus test for whether or not I even get to join in on a conversation.

Yes it is. That's how communities work. I've never seen you before this thread, but from the way TNG, Meriadoc and 8bit react to you, I'm reasonably sure you're an asshole. I'm not going to mute you, because if our paths haven't crossed so far they probably won't again, but I'm not interested in engaging with you either.

user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

That's not how online communities work.

    but from the way TNG, Meriadoc and 8bit react to you, I'm reasonably sure you're an asshole.

I'm a terrible person, you can tell because 3 people disliked my opinion. You should definitely continue making decisions in that manner, I'm sure it'll treat you well.

_refugee_  ·  3785 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Three people that bfv knows, trusts, and has interacted with over a great deal of time. You know, in meatspace, I think they call them "friends." If three of your friends who you trusted told you someone was a dick, would you assume they were probably a dick? You wouldn't avoid them, but you wouldn't seek them out and maybe you would approach them with caution?

If you say no, then why are you friends with people whose opinions you don't trust?

user-inactivated  ·  3785 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It's an online community on a public forum for content aggregation.

Perhaps the problem is that some of you are having difficulty emotionally keeping your distance so instead you feel that you should have the right to form cliques and try as hard as you can to ruin someone elses experience of the site.

I can't stop you from being so petty, but I can have a low opinion of you for your willingness to do so.

arguewithatree  ·  3785 days ago  ·  link  ·  

hey guess what...the internet doesn't operate in a vacuum!!! behind these usernames are real live people!!! with real live feelings!!! who crave real live interactions!!! and you're disrupting that. you're the kid in the sandbox who throws sand in everyone's eyes and wonders why no one wants to hang out with you.

you think badly of our community.

so leave.

user-inactivated  ·  3785 days ago  ·  link  ·  

it seems strange that the ones doing the muting don't think about the "real live feelings" of the ones they're muting.

user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Here, let me be an asshole now.

Oh shit, those other moments weren't you being an asshole, woops, wish I had known that.

user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Those other moments were me expressing an opinion the other person disliked.

user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh god, I just can't anymore.

Yes mrieland, your opinion is the reason people dislike interacting with you.

God, you're so lucky I find you entertaining. St this point.

user-inactivated  ·  3786 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'll end the conversation since you can't seem to.

Also, it's mreiland, not mrieland. It's german so it often gets misprounced as mrieland, but it's actually spelled mreiland :)

_refugee_  ·  3785 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    When you start claiming to be a 'community for thoughtful conversations' you immediately start competing with reddit

HAHAHAHAHA

    And reddit tends to have better conversations than Hubski because of the level playing field

Dude, what fucking subreddits do you lurk? No, I want to know, because I'm seriously subscribed to about 75 including ones that are specifically for thought-provoking discussion and articles, like r/trueaskreddit, r/depthhub, r/metareddit, and so on. You know the two subreddits I honestly find the most interesting discussion? r/fitness and r/relationships. And it is not thought-provoking.