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_refugee_  ·  3788 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "you are muted here"

Three people that bfv knows, trusts, and has interacted with over a great deal of time. You know, in meatspace, I think they call them "friends." If three of your friends who you trusted told you someone was a dick, would you assume they were probably a dick? You wouldn't avoid them, but you wouldn't seek them out and maybe you would approach them with caution?

If you say no, then why are you friends with people whose opinions you don't trust?