Like BrainBurner, I was quite young as well when I was first exposed to porn and I believe it really has made quite an impact on me. I can remember exactly the first pornographic picture I was exposed to (a picture of pornstar Sky Lopez squatting wearing nothing but a pair of clear stripper heels). I feel that picture has shaped how my definition of sex and sexuality. I will ask my girlfriend to wear a pair of heels whenever we do anything sexual. I love to buy her heels and we always "break them in" by having her wear them while giving me oral. I also find porn itself as sex if that makes any sense as I will be taking pictures or videos everytime we're doing anything sexual. I have an encrypted hard drive full of pictures and videos of her.