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cgod  ·  4252 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Real Problem With Hooking Up: Bad Sex

Occasionally fantastic, mostly disatisfying. The relationship with the best sex I ever had started with a hook up. Everything but the sex was completely wrong with that relationship, but it kept us together for a while.





humanodon  ·  4252 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Been there. Sometimes the sex is all that makes sense with a particular person and I don't mean "makes sense" in a cerebral way, but really on a fundamental level. Sometimes the relationship part, the friendship part is the only thing that works on that level too. If I ever have a kid, I'm going to try to get that across as clearly and honestly as I can.