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elizabeth  ·  673 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: January 18, 2023

Overall a good week! Spent a few days back at home to help feed my little niece at night so my sister could get some sleep. Re-wrote my cv and learning about what it takes to make the career switch, and if it’s something that will actually fit my profile. Went to see an art expo with my ex - building back the friendship slowly. I need to let go of some worries Ive been carrying about his financial situation and stuff, as it’s not really my problem anymore. It’s hard to turn it off sometimes but it’s getting easier. It’s also getting easier to have a positive outlook on what this year will bring. Excited for the upcoming travels, new opportunities and who knows what other surprises. And sober January is still on, I’m proud of myself for not caving! Finally feels like I’ve unstuck mentally a little after all the overwhelming changes in 2022.





Foveaux  ·  672 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It can be so hard not to worry about a previous partner - but in a way its nice that you can maintain that connection. As you say it'll wane and adjust over time, but it's a positive thing, I think, that you still have that capacity.