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Trombone  ·  2890 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Long, Slow Death of Religion

This "religion is dying" sentiment is pretty common, but I don't agree with it. Religion as a whole is evolving, not dying. People are simply choosing to direct their devotional energy to other outlets than the conventional.





OftenBen  ·  2889 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Is it a fair assessment, in your mind, to say that people are not, by and large, using religious lines of thought/reasoning to make decisions, regardless of the state of their perceived connection to the divine?

It's the old trope about 'I'm not religious, I'm spiritual.'

thenewgreen  ·  2882 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    It's the old trope about 'I'm not religious, I'm spiritual.'

Some would say that there is a very real difference between the two:

OftenBen  ·  2882 days ago  ·  link  ·  

That's kind of exactly the point I'm making.

A 'Religious' person makes big life decisions with regard to their religion, what their religion believes is 'right.'

A 'Spiritual' person makes big life decisions based on what they think will be the best/most desirable outcome, and look for 'spiritual' justification or solace or comfort after the fact.

I think a lot of people who call themselves 'religious' are actually 'spiritual' and that is what makes it so that 'Christian' can mean Duggars or it can mean Nadia Bolz-Weber.

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OftenBen  ·  2887 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I think that fewer people should call themselves 'religious.' I think that it should be illegal to expose children under the age of 16 to religious ideology or texts, except as historical documents.

I think that if a group of adults all agree to read from an old book once a week and reflect on how they can be better people, kinder to their neighbors, that's great, and should be encouraged. I think that some churches actually have this to some degree, many don't. I think that Unitarian Universalists have it closest to correct, doctrinally speaking. Love everybody, love them so much it hurts.

The fact that prosperity theology exists is proof positive to me that in most instances the Bible in specific and religious texts in general are tools used by clever people to affect the behavior of less clever people. Sometimes those clever people do genuinely want to make people happier/more ethical/moral, sometimes they need a new jumbo jet, GOD NEEDS A NEW JUMBO JET.

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OftenBen  ·  2887 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Is it ethical to put a child through a faith-based education, and to possibly subject them to non-consensual physical alteration (i.e. circumcision or FGM) as part of the faith?

I can't find an argument that supports this except for a biblical one. Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go,

And when he is old he will not depart from it."

And all that's really saying is "Get 'em young so that they aren't capable of questioning it when we tell them to believe hogwash."

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OftenBen  ·  2887 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I'd make an exception to my own observation, though, when it comes to physical alteration. FGM, circumcision, anything done without consent like that is unethical.

I don't see how mangling a child's ability to use critical thinking is any different. It causes real-world harm even if it's not done with a knife and a rabbis mouth.

I'm not a parent, and likely won't ever be. I get to sit on my moral high horse and say 'It is never okay to lie to children.'

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OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    there's a whole bunch of other ways to do this besides religion.

    At this point we leave the discussion on religion and transition into a parent's right to raise their children.

Agreed.

I feel compelled to mention at this point that I am pretty against the idea of most people being parents. I think that bringing a child into the world and raising a competent, self-sufficient, pro-social, healthy, mostly-happy adult is possibly the most difficult thing that a lot of people will ever do, and few are able to do it well.

The harder acknowledgement for me personally, is that human imperfection makes it so that there really isn't a better option than giving people all the freedom we can, all the information we can, and hoping that they make good informed decisions. Every other suggestion on this issue is some form of eugenics, in that formal criteria for who is and who isn't allowed to have babies would be created.

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OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm not sure why, but apparently it's a controversial idea to state that I think the only babies that should be born, are ones who can be born to a pair of emotionally and financially stable adults who have the means and desire to raise competent, self-sufficient, pro-social, healthy, mostly happy adults.

user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Cause that's pretty damn close to Eugenics?

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Natural selection is still acting upon the human species. Changes are being made to our allele frequencies with or without our sanction. I believe that massive amounts of pain and suffering could be averted by making conscious choices about which alleles become more or less prevalent, and that makes me a weirdo.

Tay-Sachs, Harlequin ichthyosis, all kinds of diseases, all kinds of suffering are apparently the price our society is willing to pay to maintain the moral high ground.

user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You said

    I feel compelled to mention at this point that I am pretty against the idea of most people being parents. I think that bringing a child into the world and raising a competent, self-sufficient, pro-social, healthy, mostly-happy adult is possibly the most difficult thing that a lot of people will ever do, and few are able to do it well.

and you said

    I'm not sure why, but apparently it's a controversial idea to state that I think the only babies that should be born, are ones who can be born to a pair of emotionally and financially stable adults who have the means and desire to raise competent, self-sufficient, pro-social, healthy, mostly happy adults.

Which means in your mind, this goes beyond genetics and birth defects. You're proposing a government or some other agency decides who is and isn't fit to be parents, not only for genetic purposes, but since this is stemming from a conversation about religion where you earlier argued that parents shouldn't be allowed to have their children engage in religious study, arguably for ideological purposes as well.

Maybe you ought to reconsider the path of thought that took you down to this conclusion, especially since in other posts you often voice such a vehement distaste for organizations that exert authority over both individuals as well as large groups of people.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Which means in your mind, this goes beyond genetics and birth defects.

Yup. Nature and Nurture and flat out luck determine if you're going to be a saint or a serial killer.

    You're proposing a government or some other agency decides who is and isn't fit to be parents,

Nope, but I know that's the only conceivable idea to put these things into practice. I can only control myself. I'm not going to produce biological children because I refuse to pass on my variety of messed up to the next generation. I can wish and wish for other people in similar situations to take the same considerations, adoption as one example and IVF and embryonic screening as another. Some will, some won't.

My ideal isn't a government agency saying 'Your SAT score was too low, you don't get to have kids, here's a sterilization pill.' it's people with inheritable conditions, or without the means to raise adults self-selecting out of being parents, or else taking measures to address the problems that can be fixed for the betterment of the human meta-animal.

I've examined this a lot. Do you think it's an easy or flippant thing to declare with the certainty that I do that I'm not fit to reproduce? If there was such an agency handing out chemical castrations I'd be the first one to sign up, and be glad for the privilege.

user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Do you think it's an easy or flippant thing to declare with the certainty that I do that I'm not fit to reproduce? If there was such an agency handing out chemical castrations I'd be the first one to sign up, and be glad for the privilege.

Abstinence and birth control (including vasectomies) are voluntary. Fascist and totalitarian laws that take rights away from people? Not so much.

Trombone  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It is a form of eugenics, because it creates a class of people who are legal adults, capable of making their own decisions, who are legally prohibited from having children.

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user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The principal is the same. It's about arbitrary conditions set by those in power that can easily be manipulated to disenfranchise others and take away their basic human right to reproduce. That's why it's controversial and that's why it's "pretty damn close."

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user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

How about, instead of looking at restrictions to alleviate suffering, we look at ways of supporting each other. You know, good schools, good community support programs, good health care and nutrition initiatives, combating poverty, etc. Or should we just continue to dance with concepts of fascism and totalitarianism to take care of every difficult problem?

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user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Counter argument. More developed nations, such as countries in Europe, Japan, and The United States either have a stable or declining population growth. The only reason half those countries, such as the US, has a growing population is because of immigration. There's a direct correlation between the number of children a woman has, her job, her income, her education level, and the country she lives in. Furthermore, every decade, every year, every month, we're coming up with more and more techniques in engineering, agriculture, and medicine to take care of the people we do have.

Equilibrium is possible. Hell, if it'll really help, bringing down the total global population without resorting to anything drastic or ugly is possible. We just need to focus on programs to achieve those means. You know, ones focused on what I just listed.

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user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    That's double what we have now, in less than 100 years. The environment can't cope with that stress.

There's a limit, we both can definitely agree on that. I'm pretty certain though, I heard it argued back in the late 1800s early 1900s that the earth couldn't support 1 billion. I think the goalposts move with the development of technology. I think we should continue to develop technology but focus on finding a concrete place to put those goal posts, before we find out how catastrophic that limit might really be.

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user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I agree things are complex and look grim. I really hope we're not too late here.

    The challenges we face are immense, and unprecedented action is needed to tackle them. We don't have that.

I think we're slowly but surely starting to turn that ship around. Ask China.

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user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    windmill

Can I just say that I think windmills are some of the most impressive things to see in person? Pictures don't do their size justice.

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veen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I recommend watching Hans Rosling's The Overpopulation Myth for more thoughts on global population demographics.

I'd also like to point out that worries about overpopulation have been going on for centuries and that it has been used as an excuse for terrible things ranging from eugenics to screwing over the poor. It's not an unimportant issue nor is it wrong to worry about it but it's definitely a problem with a history.

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OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Something would need to change us from the path we're on, imo, and it's not clear what that may be as of yet.

My depressed brain has one likely candidate. Catastrophe.

veen  ·  2885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

More realistic: misery for billions of people not living in colder, Western countries. The sad part is that you and I will probably be fine whereas someone in sub-Saharan Africa will likely perish, even though we are way more responsible for it.

OftenBen  ·  2885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

That doesn't count as catastrophe?

veen  ·  2885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Not the kind of catastrophe that'll get us to change from the path we're on, I think.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    But, as we profess our support for that right we must remember that it causes suffering.

Right, this is sort of the core of the debate.

I don't think that suffering is worth it. Others have a different opinion. I understand and accept the arguments against a government agency whose job it is to tell you if you can or cannot have kids. I don't understand the argument that's in favor of the proliferation of disease-causing alleles.

Trombone  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    genetic diseases and mutations are necessary.

Mutations yes, known pathological ones, no. Genetic disease, no, not necessary.

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OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Well it's not like you can have one without the other.

Variation exists that is non-pathological. There are lots of different ways to code a muscle fiber, for example. There are also lots of ways to code half-functional, disease causing muscle fiber.

Believe me when I say I understand how genetics works. I don't pretend that selective breeding is a cure-all, and if it were misapplied, we would lose a lot of beneficial genetic diversity. I'm not against genetic diversity, I think it's important. But the spectrum is wider than just 'good' genes and 'bad' genes, as you stated.

We know more now than our ancestors. That obliges us to use that knowledge for the betterment of the species. That obliges us to use that knowledge to reduce suffering where we can.

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OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Would it not, for the sake of argument, be a better tactic to use CRISPR methods if the goal is to eliminate the mutant genes?

I look forward to the day when we can do that. I think it's our best hope for a Tay-Sachs, HI free future, among others. I'd love to live in a world where we can drive the disease from our genes so that our kids only have to contend with the struggles they encounter after birth. Some people, for reasons unknowable to me, are opposed to even this most humane of treatments.

    the last time doctors went out with the objective to reduce suffering where possible we got the opioid epidemic.

I don't think this is a fair comparison. Nobody stands to make a oodles and oodles of long-term profit from removing pathological mutations from people. Genetic Therapy would be a service you'd use once, rather than a life-long addiction to a substance.

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OftenBen  ·  2882 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    You must agree, though, that misuse of any medical treatment is of concern, including CRISPR.

I completely agree. The point of contention is what qualifies as 'misuse.'

In my mind, removing a gene that is known to be pathological and replacing it with a sequence we know DOESN'T cause disease isn't even a controversial point.

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OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Just as a related aside, you will never find a NICU or PICU doctor or nurse who is pro-life.

user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Nice try to muddy the waters there. Eugenics and pro-choice are two different issues.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

My point is that it's easy to say that these terrible inherited conditions that leave hours old infants screaming in their death throes are an acceptable price for unchecked, uncontemplated reproduction and the right of individuals to reproduce when you don't see it first hand.

I'm not saying that NICU and PICU staff are pro-eugenics. I'm saying that first-hand experience changes peoples opinions on controversial topics.

user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

And I'm saying that allowing a couple to choose whether or not they're going to keep a pregnancy, and allowing a couple to choose whether or not they even get to try and have a pregnancy in the first place are two completely different things.

So once again, you're trying to muddy the waters.

oyster  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Taking away the right to reproduce would just mean either sterilizing woman or forcing them to have abortions, which is also pretty fucked up and would cause suffering as well on a pretty huge scale. The pro-eugenics side is far from sunshine, rainbows and happy babies. Seeing that as an acceptable price for regulating who can have babies is easy to do when you don't think about it like even a little.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I mean, or you could sterilize men. That's much easier and takes less of a toll on their bodies.

Nobody is in favor of abortion. What I am in favor of is making the best of a bad situation. Do I wish that we had GATTACA levels of technology, and anyone could have their bad genes corrected so that their baby doesn't get Tay-Sachs or Harlequin ichthyosis, and we don't have to have this discussion. But we're not there yet.

I'm not saying it's a sunshine and rainbows solution. I am trying to say it reduces suffering that's inflicted upon hours old infants.

oyster  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You are in healthcare, surely you are aware that woman can pass on genetic disorders as well.

Sure we can reduce suffering on hour old infants but how do you think sterilizing woman and men would actually reduce suffering in the world ? Pretty sure that would cause plenty of chaos which would in turn cause suffering for hours old infants.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    how do you think sterilizing woman and men would actually reduce suffering in the world ?

I think that if fewer babies were born with debilitating, painful, ultimately lethal illnesses, that would be a good thing.

I think if you know you're likely to produce a sick baby, you should adopt or else take measures to ensure that you don't produce a sick baby. I think you owe it to your future children to provide for their health and safety and quality of life as best you can, and that includes their genetic heritage. We have more tools at our disposal than ever before to make that a reality, and I think they aren't used as much as they could be.

oyster  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I mean it just sounds like you are pretty pro-eugenics but you are uncomfortable saying it because like people are obviously against eugenics. There is absolutely no way to make sure certain people don't reproduce unless they are rendered physically incapable. You fantasize about a world free of hours old infants suffering but it seems like it pains you to consider the reality that even with all these technologies that could "make that a reality" it will never work.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

In the same way I'm pro-communist in theory, im also pro-eugenics in theory. In practice im against both and for the same reason. They don't work in practice.

user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Maybe instead of entertaining ideas that fail in practice, maybe you ought to worry about entertaining practices that work in reality.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    you ought to worry about entertaining practices that work in reality.

Why do you think i'm pursuing a career in public health?

user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I think if you know you're likely to produce a sick baby, you should adopt or else take measures to ensure that you don't produce a sick baby. I think you owe it to your future children to provide for their health and safety and quality of life as best you can, and that includes their genetic heritage. We have more tools at our disposal than ever before to make that a reality, and I think they aren't used as much as they could be.

    Why do you think i'm pursuing a career in public health?

I think the better question is, why are you entertaining thoughts of eugenics when you clearly know better?

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I don't describe my beliefs as eugenics, and I think it's unfair that you do, but I don't get to decide what you label me.

There will never be a government agency that tells people they can't have kids. I would never advocate for such a thing and it's frankly impossible in practice even in the most totalitarian of states. What I would like is for people to make honest appraisals of their means and ability to be a responsible parent, which includes the genetic component. I will frankly state that I think less of people who knowingly bring sick kids into the world. Medicine does not exist to try and ameliorate the consequences of peoples poor decision making. Fate throws us enough curveballs, enough suffering without having to deal with conscious stupidity.

user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

That's it. The kid gloves are off, because this perverse joke of a debate has gone on long enough.

    I don't describe my beliefs as eugenics, and I think it's unfair that you do, but I don't get to decide what you label me.

Except you literally admitted it . . .

    It is a form of eugenics, because it creates a class of people who are legal adults, capable of making their own decisions, who are legally prohibited from having children.

. . .

    There will never be a government agency that tells people they can't have kids. I would never advocate for such a thing and it's frankly impossible in practice even in the most totalitarian of states.

Dude. Eugenics have been around for centuries. You don't even have to find yourself in a totalitarian state to find yourself a victim of eugenics. You want the ugly truth? The real, nasty, ugly truth? It happened here, in America. On multiple occasions. Even worse? We gave the idea to the fucking Nazis. Read that whole thing. It's dispicable. It's disgusting. It's completely, wholly, and without argument, indefensible.

So you can sit there, at your computer, in your chair at home, and say "Oh. I think Eugenics is okay as a thought exercise and I don't see why it's so controversial." The reality though? The reality is for so many countries, it was more than a thought exercise, it was a real practice, with real victims, with long lasting consequences.

Fate throws us curveballs. Entertaining the idea of eugenics, even slightly, is the embodiment of conscious stupidity.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Except you literally admitted it . . .

Yes, your interpretation of what I believe the world 'should' be like is eugenics. I am not in favor of a government agency telling people they can or can't have kids. I do think that lots of unqualified people are parents, and there should be some standard that we can agree on as a society that define 'acceptable minimums' for being a parent. We don't let people with Downs have kids, even in cases where they want them. Not everybody reproduces. Regardless of what you or I believe, changes are being made to the frequency of alleles that develop into the characteristics that make us human. Because of the miracle of modern medicine, pathological alleles that once would have been selected out by the unforgiving hand of Mother Nature are surviving and reproducing. In cases where it's a pure binary of 'dead or not dead' that's a good thing, but in the cases where it's 'Dead or alive but barely, and not really a person with agency or anything like a decent quality of life' that's not a good thing. The population of 'Alive, but barely, and experiencing a lot of pain' is growing, and will continue to grow.

I'm well aware of the history of eugenics. I'm aware of the historical US influence on other countries with regard to eugenics. I am aware of the long history of abuse and violence inflicted in the name of 'racial purity' and various other causes.

Do you think, if you had the experiences that I have had, you would feel differently than I feel?

user-inactivated  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

From start to finish, you've been contradicting yourself this entire conversation, moving the goalposts, and trying to muddy the issue. Either you want to talk about eugenics when it comes to ideologies and a person's capacity to be a good parent, or you don't. Either you want to talk about eugenics and genetics and birth defects, or you don't. Either you want to admit that it's morally wrong and reprehensible, or you don't. Either you want to admit that it's something that past governments have done and is still a risk in today's world or you don't. Apparently, we can talk about this all night because you don't want to commit to any one part of the argument.

So this is my last response.

Deciding who can and can't get married, who can and can't have kids, how they can and can't raise them, what risks they can and can't take, are all up to the individuals. Period, full stop.

Fucking polio, small pox, and the mother fucking flu used to be devastating. We're over that hump. Now we got this hump to go over. Focusing on the genetic, nutritional, environmental problems behind these diseases is fine. Same with poverty. Same with hunger. Same with a shit ton of problems. Once again, deciding who can and can't have kids and what risks they can and can't take, is up the the individuals. Period. Full. Stop.

If you are well aware of the history of eugenics and are even slightly willing to entertain them as a viable idea, EVEN IN THEORY AND NOT IN PRACTICE, you need to accept every last bit of criticism and argument that comes your way, because you are in the wrong. Period. Full. Fucking. Stop.

    Do you think, if you had the experiences that I have had, you would feel differently than I feel?

I guaran-fucking-damn-tee you I do, because unlike you (remember this shitshow of an argument?) no matter what problem I see in the world, never will I ever even consider dances on the fringes of fascist or totalitarian concepts. Furthermore, if I ever do, and it's pointed out to me, I'll scoot my ass away from that fire so quick you'll see a fucking blur and thank the man that kept me from getting singed.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Good talk. I'm totally in favor of sick people having oodles of sick babies now.

But you're outright wrong on one point. If you had lived my experiences, you would be me. That's how being human works. We are the amalgamation of every experience we've had leading up to the present moment.

I hope you never have to experience the things that have led me to believing the things I do.

oyster  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I am not in favor of a government agency telling people they can or can't have kids.

    there should be some standard that we can agree on as a society that define 'acceptable minimums' for being a parent.

What ? How do we standardize something without some sort of agency ?

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    How do we standardize something without some sort of agency ?

I'm open to suggestions. Off the top of my head, we could crowdsource it. Ask people what they think the 'acceptable minimum' is for different things. Keep refining the questions until some sort of consensus is reached. Then somehow get prospective parents to reflect and honestly assess if they are able to meet those minimums.

oyster  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

If people want kids, they'll have them regardless of what some randoms on the internet decide is acceptable.

I mean basically you think people should vote for a standard but you're stopping short of saying the standard should be enforced to avoid the whole government thing.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    you're stopping short of saying the standard should be enforced to avoid the whole government thing.

Mostly because it can't be enforced effectively enough to warrant doing it in the first place. And what is government other than some random people?

As you said, people who want kids will have them regardless. I don't think that's a good thing. Children are people too, not just something an adult gets to have because they want one.

oyster  ·  2885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

So what about normalizing adoption ? Currently it's seen as the last ditch effort to have kids for those people who fail in every other way. If it wasn't viewed so negatively than maybe more people would make that choice when deciding if they want kids.

There are actual ways to convince more people to stop having kids they know will be sick that don't involve any sort of voting or standardized list of who can acceptably have children.

OftenBen  ·  2885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

That's another good approach, but emotionally difficult to sell. Most people who want kids want their own kids, and that's not a moral failing. Maybe it should be?

oyster  ·  2885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Dude, it's not about looking down on people or moral failing. The more you look down on people, the easier it is to dehumanize them and the less you will care about their suffering.

That's not difficult to sell, it's just an approach that will take a new generation to fully understand. Considering adopting would have less of an impact on a woman's career since she skips pregnancy it could easily start to seem like a positive.

oyster  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

That doesn't make sense. Your just for eugenics and communism when you can ignore reality, what is even the point of that ?

Edit: that just sounds like a really depressing way to hate the world for not being able to live up to these idealized concepts.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm a depressed and depressing person. In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, theory and practice are different.

I want fewer sick babies born, and that make me a fascist. Mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa.

oyster  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Carrying certain mindsets will make you depressed. Fantasizing about a world that will never exist as easily as you want it too will only make you hate the world. That's your choice but just accepting reality and living fully in it is a lot less depressing.

You don't just want fewer sick babies born, you want fewer sick babies born and your afraid to admit you think people should be sterilized so instead you say that people should want to be sterilized like you would happily do. Not only does that just keep you in a depressing cycle of hating the world it also keeps you away from actual solutions.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    your afraid to admit you think people should be sterilized

Except, I don't think this. But I don't get to decide what you think of me, or believe that I believe.

Spend some time in a NICU or PICU unit. Talk to the parents of a kid who died of Tay-Sachs or Harlequin Ichthyosis. You and rd95 and Quatrarius all go do that. Then please come tell me that you feel exactly the same way you do now about conscious genetic choices.

Quatrarius  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

everybody that disagrees with me is dumb

oyster  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Okay, so then lay out exactly how you think we can achieve fewer sick babies. How are we going to stop people, with the current technology we have, from having sick babies without forcing anything ?

It is sad babies are born sick, it's sad children get cancer. You know what's also sad ? Baby girls being mutilated because the Chinese government thought they could step in and tell people how to reproduce.

OftenBen  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Education is the first part, as rd95 talks about. The more educated a populace, the lower the birthrate in general, which helps. But 'education' means more than basic K-12 stuff, it includes sex education, and not abstinence based sex ed either, but actual science based lessons on how human reproduction works and how to avoid conception. And that's unfortunately controversial.

Soon, genetic testing will be cheap enough that large-scale genetic analysis of the general population will be possible, and more people will know what kind of risks they undertake when they choose to get pregnant.

But I don't know how to change someones mind about having a baby if they are likely to produce a sick one. Typically, people don't decide to have kids, they just sort of happen. I'd like to see more people make the choice I have, and consciously decide to not pass on identified pathological genes. I don't know what arguments would persuade someone who had consciously decided to have kids anyway, knowing they could make them lethally ill.

oyster  ·  2886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

So basically you have absolutely no idea how to make it happen.

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user-inactivated  ·  2890 days ago  ·  link  ·  

If you feel compelled to expand upon this, I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Trombone  ·  2890 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Alrighty. So we've established that organized religion in America is dying out, as it has in other Western states. I can't speak for Europe/Canada/etc., and I don't want to generalize that all religion is dying out (Islam is growing, in fact). This is a discussion on American faith because that's what I can speak on with a shred of authority. Before that, though, I want to clear something up about this article:

It begins with this "none" category, then asserting that these people "ignore faith". If you look at the actual PRRI study that is being referenced, this category is actually "unaffiliated", which reads rather differently than "none", and changes the entire meaning of the study. Instead of, as Mr. Haught would like us to believe, people saying "to hell with religion", the study has this to say about the unaffiliated:

    Rejectionists, who account for the majority (58%) of all unaffiliated Americans, say religion is not personally important in their lives and believe religion as a whole does more harm than good in society. Apatheists, who make up 22% of the unaffiliated, say religion is not personally important to them, but believe it generally is more socially helpful than harmful. Unattached believers, who make up only 18% of the unaffiliated, say religion is important to them personally.

So, the majority is saying "to hell with religion", but far from all are doing it. 18% are still religious and 22% say that religion is a force for good even if it's not personally important. That's 40% of the unaffiliated, with a positive view of religion. This is crucial information that Haught chooses to ignore, and in fact attempts to hide by calling them "nones" instead of unaffiliated. I'm not impressed.

Now, with that out of the way, I can move on...

That 18% of the unaffiliated is the first thing I'd like to discuss. These people have left organized religion, yes, but they are still religious. Perhaps because of disagreements with the church, revulsion at church conduct, or a belief that they can do it better on their own, they have opted for their own way of doing things. It's "unconventional" religion - unorganized, but religion nonetheless. The existence of this group, and of the 22% that still views religion favorably, indicates that religion is - at least in part - evolving, not dying. Belief systems rise and fall with time, and to declare a modern perma-death of religion ignores the lessons of the past in that regard. To claim that we live in the era of ultimate scientific rationality that spells the final end of barbaric religion is quite hubristic.

My second argument is more opinionated, so feel free to take it or leave it. Humans have a basic drive towards religious faith. This is easily seen in the scores of religions that have independently developed all around the world throughout history. We have that desire for the presence and the reassurance of the omnipotent, to explain the things we don't understand and maybe to help us feel a little less lonely. Now, with science answering a number of the questions that we used to have and the world becoming smaller and smaller, it's become harder to accept the dusty words of ancient texts for a number of people (not nearly all, though) because of the sheer cognitive dissonance. So, if traditional religion isn't working for you, what do you do? How do you get your omnipotence fix? You worship what's around you. We deify other people. Look at somebody like Elon Musk. He's gonna do this, that and the other thing, and save humanity by sending us all to Mars yada yada yada. Never mind the fact that his company's finances are pretty much a nightmare, Tesla stock is a hot commodity. It's buoyed up by his cult of personality. People have faith in the power of the man that overcomes whatever negative feelings they may have from Tesla's performance. Steve Jobs was the same way. How many people worshipped him? How many Jobs movies, books, and documentaries have been churned out since his death? How many people still like wearing those black turtlenecks like they're some sort of priestly garment? My point is, ideating people like Jobs and Musk scratches the same itch that organized religion does, it gives that comfort of being in the presence of the omnipotent. It arises from the same motivations, from a channeling of devotional energy to the "unconventional". I would call it a religion of sorts, just not the kind that we're used to.

I'd conjecture that the same argument can be made for technology in the surrogate role.

user-inactivated  ·  2889 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I don't have much to say, other than that's actually a very well thought out response for one, and for two, I'm kind of surprised the number of religious but not affiliated is only 18%. Personal experience, it seems like it'd be higher than that.

Trombone  ·  2889 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm flattered to hear that, thank you. And I was also surprised by the low number of religious/unaffiliated. The article's lack of discussion on that group was actually the prompt for me to go sniffing for the source.

Trombone  ·  2890 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Sure thing. I'm out at the moment but will expound when I'm back at my desk.