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comment by psudo
psudo  ·  3411 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: What Do You Need in a Relationship?

Yeah, we went over this back in my high school AP Psychology class like a decade ago, so my memory might be fuzzy, but it really did seem to fit well. And I think it's important to note that you're unlikely to have one language, but value certain languages above others.

And it's useful to find out which languages your SO prefers, as I've had relationships where we were feeling unloved, only to find out that we were showing our love the way we understood it, instead of how the other did.