Apparently I'm in the realm of 'secure' I'm confident that getting into this zone has been a direct result of my marriage and the relationship my wife and I have built. Many things in life give make me anxious and can cause me to just shut down, but my relationship with my wife is not one of them.
Yes, I would assume that for people who are happily married that this questionnaire is as much a reflection of their spouse as it is of the person answering the questions. You may be comfortable being close with this one person, but that doesn't mean you're generally an easy nut to crack. Seems to be a self-affirming test, rather than an insightful guide to your own personality.
Very true, as I am a more anxious and avoiding person in contexts other than my marriage.
Yeah, you've got a good thing going pal. You two seem genuinely awesome together. Well done!