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ghostoffuffle  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Ignore users newer than X days: The Problem

I'm curious about what you mean re. Hubski not being a place for honest discussion. Do you mean intellectually honest? Emotionally honest? Please develop.

Don't know if I could easily dissuade you of the notion that cliques are prevalent here, or that they inform the general shape of discussions. I think that your views on the matter might be colored by a little bit of confirmation bias, and you may or may not choose to stick around long enough to recognize the long list of rules that disprove the exception.

I can tell you that, as somebody who's hung around the site for, I dunno, two years now? I see little evidence of true cliquishness. Oh, people have followers, and some more than others. That's written into the structure of the site. And if you choose to dwell on such things, you might start to wonder why user X has more followers than user Y. But I can also say with confidence that, should you choose, you could just as comfortably interact with each party and their followers without being or even feeling discriminated against. A good first step might be to try out Zen Mode, which erases all metrics-based functions from your experience, allowing you to interact without having to worry about all that silly point-based nonsense.

I would encourage you to stick around a while longer, and to not be afraid to brush up against the opinions or beliefs of others, as long as you do it in a way you'd be comfortable doing in real life. After all, there are some really neat people and ideas kicking around here, you just have to invest a little.



user-inactivated  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    And if you choose to dwell on such things, you might start to wonder why user X has more followers than user Y.

Naaaaailed it.

Just because I don't see light blue on a username doesn't mean I don't or don't want to interact with them or think less of them. If they have content to share than I'm going to engage them in a discussion. And if it's a positive experience, I'm going to follow them.

I've followed a lot of the new people here because of pleasant, engaging conversations, like with water and swedishbadgergirl.

It's all about your perception and mindset. Reddit automatically makes you think in the context of "power users." But there are no Unidans here. Just people who like hanging out in the third-place more frequently than others.

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water  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Honestly my initial positive interactions with people like you really showed me how different this place is. It's a really neat community of people with diverse interest and everyone seems really accessible.

Kleinb00 muted me though and I'm sad panda about that because I can't comment on some cool stuff ;(

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swedishbadgergirl  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yeah, him not liking new users wouldn't be as bad if it wasn't for the fact that he is really interesting.

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water  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Right! seriously.

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user-inactivated  ·  3807 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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havires  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh so that's what zen mode does. Thanks.

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ghostoffuffle  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It's worth trying out. Totally different experience.

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havires  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Alright I'll go enable it and see what happens.

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