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That bit about declining desire of women in long-term relationships was completely unsurprising to me. Although I don't think the first time you have sex with a new person is likely to be the best, I do find "new" sex inherently more interesting than sex with someone I've had sex with repeatedly before. (To be flip about it, in other words, I move on.) The only way you will get better at hitting on people is if you do it, though. I mean, worry - and your worries at some point may be right, when you say just the wrong thing or stick your foot in your mouth or hit on the wrong gal - but you can't catch fish if you don't stick your hook in the water.