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user-inactivated  ·  3819 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: When Women Pursue Sex Even Men Don't Get It

I'm not even into that, I'm poly but I almost never just hook up with someone. It's just really nice that it's nearly impossible for potential partners to make absurd gendered assumptions about my behavior like those described in the article. My relationships end up built on actual, deliberate discovery of what each of us want rather than the lowest common denominator of stereotypes.