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comment by AlderaanDuran
AlderaanDuran  ·  4076 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Do You Want, Hubski?

    You will not have a happy relationship if you are not happy first.

Sage wisdom. A relationship won't make you happy if your sad or feel your life is missing something, but a relationship when you're already happy can make one even happier and life more fufilling. This is a HUGE one in my book for common mistakes, especially with younger people. They think a relationship is what they need to be happy or enjoy life, when I simply dont agree that is the case.

You have to be good being alone, before you can be great with someone else.