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TheGreatAbider16  ·  2429 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Books - Where Are They?

I will take a book! I still have Neil Gaiman's "American Gods" sitting on my shelf, and I finished it ages ago. Does anybody have interest in receiving it next?

TheGreatAbider16  ·  2603 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Today's Writing Prompt: This Is What It's Like

Oh gosh, thanks so much! That is very kind of you to say. I grinned at a few of your lines as well, especially this one, which resonated with me:

    but instead buy a carton of juice for the boyfriend

    not wanting to be doctrinaire

    about anything, even orange juice.

I have indeed published poems in Maudlin House, Rat's Ass Review, Poetry Pacific, and The Scarlet Leaf Review. I haven't been submitting much lately and have hit a bit of a dry spell in my writing, but I plan to get back into the swing of things soon! I'd love to appear in lit.cat -- it's such a fun publication with mixed media, which I appreciate.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  2605 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Today's Writing Prompt: This Is What It's Like

Oh thank you, I will! Your suggestion is welcome; I am teaching a big poetry/writing workshop unit in a couple of months and am just beginning to compile and organize texts!

TheGreatAbider16  ·  2907 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Wer hier lernt Deutsch?

Ich studierte Deutsch als NebenHauptfach an der uni. Ich bin nach Dresden gereisen um Sommer Kursen zu machen, and ich habe viel gelernt. Wenn du reisen zu lernen kannst, so sollst du! Es gibt niemand, der besser lehren kann, als die Zeit, die man in Deutschland verbringt.

Ich wünsche, dass ich dir einen besser Rat geben könnte. Leider, mache ich fast nichts Deutsch zu üben. Mein Fähigkeit wird immer schlechter. Ich bin einen English lehrer, und ich habe drei Studentin, die Deutsch studieren. Sie sind sehr talentiert, und wir reden uns oft auf Deutsch. Aber sie haben noch so viel zu lernen. Ich habe noch keine Gelegenheit schwerige Unterhaltungen zu haben.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  2907 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Wer hier lernt Deutsch?

Danke!

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3092 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Books - Where Are They?

I finished my book, Foundation. I enjoyed it, but not quite as much as I had hoped. I have trouble getting into sci-fi for some reason, with the exception of Kurt Vonnegut, who does it a little differently anyway. I am almost certain I sent mine on. It sounds like maybe galen has it? If not, it's in my box of books, because I still lack a book case!

EDIT: Yep, just checked my old messages. Galen received it a while back. But I just remembered I got a second book too. Sorry, I guess it's been a while. The second one was American Gods, right? I read that one as well, and it's definitely sitting in my box of books.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3219 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Psych/Folk band I'm in did this NPR Tiny Desk Submission video

This was such a fantastically fun song, and I enjoyed the quiet, intense focus of each of you. What's your group's name?

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3229 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: POST A SHORT POEM, A PHOTO AND A SONG - Here is mine, "Owls"

Brand new leather built blisters that bubbled

and burnt, glistening wet like a fresh tattoo.

It took miles of massaging before the stiff soles

learned to hold my feet like a lover.

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I have sat for hours, a gargoyle polishing his pedestal

with wax and horsehair, rubbing brown salves

over cracks left by the desert winter air

and milky streaks of saltwater rich with lime.

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In turn, my boots have guided me blindly over brick roads

and terracotta roofs. We’ve scaled sandstone towers

and dangled above canals washed in red light.

They carried me home quietly when it was time.

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When my toes touched the rain, I emptied my pockets

before a small-mouthed man with dry-ice eyes and a beard

denser than rubber. He tore skin and stitches, transplanted

a new tar-black body onto a worn face.

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The hospital floor is pale green.

My boots glow warm brown.

Swollen lips part under fluorescent light.

Some souls can’t be replaced.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Ta-Nehisi Coates on Bernie Sanders and Reparations - The Atlantic

There has been an update on this discussion in that Michael Render, who has been promoting Bernie's campaign, spoke with Coates about Bernie and reparations. My favorite bit of commentary from Render is:

    The fact that blacks have to even justify the case for reparations is shameful. The fact that only 1 candidate is being called to task is Bullshit. Especially when that candidate is the only one with policy proposal that directly effects the black community if elected
TheGreatAbider16  ·  3244 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Do we really need more guides to mindfulness?

I agree that the lost nuance can be recovered. I'm actually all about the secularization of mindfulness and meditation. It can remain an extremely valuable spiritual practice full of variation and nuance without being tied to anything mystical or supernatural, which is not my thing. I too notice daily benefit from my practice, and a lot of my day-to-day practice is based on the teachings of Thich Nhat Hanh, but I still would not really call myself a Buddhist.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3247 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Terrarium attempt 2!

Great-- thanks for the heads up on the spider plant. Maybe I'll move tillandsia to a happier, more solitary place. I could put it into its own little open teardrop globe or probably something that allows for more air.

Good idea to plant a more future-minded terrarium. But I won't likely make another big one for a while-- I'm running out of good spots in my small, mostly-windowless apartment.

    it from a leather webwork I built

Well that may be getting a little ambitious for me!

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3247 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Terrarium attempt 2!

Thank you!

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3248 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: January 6th: What are you reading this week?

Thich Nhat Hanh's "Peace Is Every Step." It's the most recent in a long line of similarly-geared books I've been reading. I'm making a sincere effort to integrate more mindful thinking and behavior into my daily life. I read and read and read about it and then seem to forget to really apply it.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3256 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I made my first terrarium today!

Great! Maybe I'll take it outdoors some day, but probably not until after I have a home instead of an apartment.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3256 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I made my first terrarium today!

Hey thanks! Yeah I learned right after I finished it that Hawthornia is not a great terrarium plant. The nursery was really cleaned out after Christmas, so I took the only remaining succulent of appropriate size. I'm going to try to change it out ASAP for something else, maybe a Kalanchoes, per another person's advice.

I am looking forward to experimenting; I will look into the species and references that you linked, thanks again.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3257 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 155th Weekly "Share Some Music You've Been Into Lately" Thread

I've been listening to Daughter's album "If you Leave" and eagerly awaiting their new album. This is one of my favorite tracks:

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3334 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 144th Weekly "Share Some Music You've Been Into Lately" Thread

I have been listening to Noah and the Whale's first album, "Peaceful, the World Lays Me Down." It's an uplifting album, which is a departure from what I usually listen to, and a change that I think my soul really needs this month.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3334 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 144th Weekly "Share Some Music You've Been Into Lately" Thread

I'm a huge Front Bottoms fan, I hope you enjoy the show! Their concerts are such a joy.

I prefer the first two albums as well, but I think that there are some real gems on the new album. "Cough it Out," "Historic Cemetery," and "The Plan" make me smile and sing along as much as any of their songs. It's fun to hear their sound evolving, but I think the biggest reason I haven't fallen in love with this new album is that Brian's lyricism seems to lack the straightforward hilarity, honesty, and insight that I feel like it used to have.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3334 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: October 12th: What are you reading this week?

Just finished Taiye Selsasi' "Ghana Must Go." Selasi worked for years under Toni Morrison, and this is her debut novel. While her writing is very different from Morrison's, it has a captivating, powerful life of its own. I thought the book was wonderfully written and a gripping portrait of what it is to struggle with a trans continental identity.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3348 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: September 28th: What are you reading this week?

I hope you do give the next book in The Dark Tower series a try! I thought it picked up big time after the first book and that's one of my favorite book series.

I'm reading "We Need New Names" by NoViolet Bulawayo right now. I just finished Selasi's "Ghana Must Go," which I loved. So far I am not a big fan of "We Need New Names," but there's still plenty of time for that opinion to change.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3456 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Do you use your powers for good or evil?

At first I thought this thread was going to vague question from Pablo! I plan to use my skills for what I would call good.

My skills are writing, rhetoric, and people skills. I'm finishing a degree in English and professional writing, and it probably goes without saying that I love to read and write.

I tried my hand at a professional writing position and spent a summer working for a marketing company. I was writing company blogs, product descriptions, social media posts, and filler text designed for SEO. I made good money there, and they offered me a full time position after graduation if I would keep the part-time job for the rest of my degree, but I declined. I learned that everything about marketing, sales, networking, and, to be honest, capitalism in general, feels slimy to me. I got to do a fair amount of networking and meeting with current and potential clients. I'm a very outgoing person, and I make friends everywhere I go. I thought that I would have no trouble applying to people skills to networking and business, but I was wrong. It all felt like such a charade in which everyone was just trying to turn everyone else into dollar signs. I found that while I'm great with people and love socializing, I have difficulty faking a genuine conversation if I'm not sincerely engaged. Nobody was getting hurt, and we did honest work helping the businesses (most of which were pretty local) expand their web presence and grow into bigger markets. But still, I couldn't get over the feeling that everything, at the end of the day, was about money. It felt terribly un-fulfilling and, to my taste, maybe a little bit evil.

So I am now training to be a teacher, and I'll be starting my official student teaching within a year. I am a private tutor to high school and middle school students on the weekend, and I work in the writing center as a consultant and teaching assistant at my university. It is very fulfilling work, and I believe in my ability to make a lasting difference in the lives of individuals, even though I know I'm signing up for a lifetime of underpayment and under-appreciation. I don't think I'll ever feel comfortable working for a corporation. A lot of people are perfectly comfortable working in that kind of setting, doing what they love, and making great money. More power to them! I kind of wish that I had the attitude. But since I don't, it's nice to not have a nagging feeling that I might be selling my soul, screwing someone over, or doing meaningless work.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3456 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Since I'm looking for suggestions: What's your all-time favorite series?

My all time favorite show is Battlestar Galactica. Unfortunately, I think they just took it off of Netflix. It's still totally worth the time to download it and give it a go. It offers fantastic character development and thorough exploration of much of the human condition, enabled through the sci-fi genre. My favorite sci-fi writers utilize the genre to create situations that would never present themselves in more realistic fiction, and Battlestar does that for sure.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3487 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Write a poem. Here. Now. Don't think about it. Just do it. NOW!

Ach so! Das hab' ich auch gemacht. Ich studierte bei der Goethe Institut in Dresden, und die Sprache war auch mein Nebenfach an der Uni. Ich habe derzeit fast keine Gelegenheiten Deutsch zu sprechen. Ich freue mich, dass du auch Deutsch studiert hat!

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3486 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Write a poem. Here. Now. Don't think about it. Just do it. NOW!

Ja natürlich! Das wird viel Spaß geben. Lassen mir wissen, wenn du mit der Schule fertig bist.

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TheGreatAbider16  ·  3541 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Who's next then?

Hey, I'll trade you! I just finished Asimov's "Foundation." I live in the states.

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3541 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 113th Weekly "Share Some Music You've Been Into Lately" Thread

Wowzers, thanks!

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3559 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: My poems are up at Bop Dead City! - photos inside - [OC]

This is so cool, congratulations!

TheGreatAbider16  ·  3571 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski Literary Thing: Round One

I live in the states, so I guess I won't be getting my book for a while, but I thought I should address this. I don't know when I'll be able to read my book- it might not be until the end of the semester. I decided to add another minor to my degree at the last minute (may as well milk the school for all the accreditation I can, right?), and my workload this semester is intense. What should I do about this? Pass it on to another reader, or get to it when I have the chance?