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ButterflyEffect  ·  3586 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: January 28, 2015

I'm going to echo 8bit and tng: if you are being honest with yourself then it looks like it's time to move on.

A relationship should be give and take and it sounds like you're doing a whole lot of the giving in the relationship, or at the least he's doing a whole lot of the demanding in it. One girl I dated always wanted me to hang out with her friends, who(m?) I didn't click with...this created problems in the long run because while I didn't hang out with them often it ended up becoming a situation where she wanted to spend time with them and I didn't, and we would end up not seeing each other as much. Put a big strain on the relationship and if this is already happening with you then screw that. It's not worth it.

tl;dr: I think you're being reasonable and I would, as the old proverb goes, "shit and get off the pot, yo".