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hubskier for: 2328 days

You may be wondering why I've invited you here to read my bio.

Maybe it's because you liked something I said. Or you found me disagreeable, and you're curious if the rest of me matches.

You're probably just bored.

Either way, thanks for stopping by.

And hey, you're pretty alright.

recent comments, posts, and shares:
Tetr4  ·  1439 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski challenge. Don’t think. Just do. Write a poem now.

An old flame anew

Ever changing, ever same

echoes returning.

Tetr4  ·  2144 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Faster Millenials, Kill, Kill

The irony here is that they're complaining about the free market doing its thing.

Tetr4  ·  2153 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I made a trailer for Base Wars!

Sounds good! I'm always looking for feedback, so feel free to share your impressions of it.

Tetr4  ·  2160 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

Sounds nice and warm :)

And if you ever need to vent, I'm open ears.

Tetr4  ·  2161 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

I really look forward to spending a semester at somewhere like Denmark or Sweden. I'm hopeful for it; I want to travel, but I come from a family that dislikes it.

I'm glad to hear you've had such a unique time with it. Late nights are fun, but I always end up missing a regular sleep schedule.

I wish you the best; have a merry Christmas.

Tetr4  ·  2162 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

No, you're right about that. There's a pattern of indecision and dissatisfaction.

It makes me wonder what it would take to break or escape that pattern.

I've always considered simplicity a virtue. That's what I use to break indecision when I need to.

Tetr4  ·  2163 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

That's wonderful! Caring and being cared about is such a great feeling in life.

I've been missing friends lately, but my SO/family has helped me through it. Platonic/hobby connection would still be quite nice though.

Tetr4  ·  2163 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

Same.

For the first time in a while, I'm optimistic for next year.

Tetr4  ·  2163 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

I'm not sure how much I could contribute (still in University), but speaking from my own experiences with semi-realistic goals and hobbies, I'd encourage you to start planning it out as a small business, just to see how feasable it is.

So you'd need a database for the drivers, a way to test and then add new drivers (since it's starting out, you could do it by hand), a database for the users, a user-side and driver-side app (this would be the expensive part. If you're ever bored, try learning how to make an app (I say as a Computer nerd), but honestly this would be the toughest part of the startup). Etc etc. At least putting it on paper might help organize it in your mind and assess if/when it's viable.

Back to the general questions.

If it helps, you in 3 years will definitely have a different opinion on what you should've done. That's inevitable, and that's okay. What really matters is figuring out clear goals now, so that finding what you should work on becomes much easier.

Live a life full of adventure/travel (if you want to) and worry about being a parent when you get there. Working backwards, being a healthy father would originate from a loving relationship, and the key to that is living a satisfying and fulfilling internal life. Love yourself, and respect/pay attention to others, and that bit will work itself out, I believe.

Tetr4  ·  2163 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

I wish you the best of luck with the coffee shop! Taking risks and starting ventures is something I've always wished I had the guts to follow through with.

Self sufficiency is an elegant way to live. More and more, I see people subscribe to the idea of "if it's broke, then replace it". I think it's because we increasingly value our time, but sadly see slowing down and learning to fix things as a waste of time.

Tetr4  ·  2163 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

Sounds a bit hectic, but overall satisfying. I won't put words in your mouth about that though.

I'm glad you're able to live comfortably! That's where I'd like to be in the future.

Also, the schaudenfreude of the market crashing is underrated. Your description beats whatever I'd have to say on the matter, but I was also taking out some time just to watch.

Tetr4  ·  2163 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

We're living the life, my friend.

Has a nice sentiment that the keu factor is IRL encouragement, but then the article quickly offrails into their social media advertising.

Still a nice idea, even if poorly presented.

Tetr4  ·  2163 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Where are you at right now?" Thread

I'll start.

It's 4 AM. I'm home from College right now (passionately studying for Computer Science). I wake up in 6 hours for some pre-christmas celebrations with my family. I'm excited, but I already know I'll be tired. Staying up late is a mistake I enjoy making too much.

I have a general idea of where I'm at. I'm in a happy relationship (that I want to write about, but I'll save the time for those not interested). I love programming, making games, and working with computers, even if a lot of others' projects intimidate me. I have a large strain of existential dread, but I'm able to be happy and get lost in the day-to-day despite.

I have this general gut feeling of needing guidance. I've been meaning to go to a counselor just to sort my mind out, but I doubt I'd find a good one. I never did back when I was searching.

I do have a diary/journal that I keep online, just in case I ever want to share it. Nothing personal or specific, just monologues and poetry mostly.

And fittingly, right now I hope this thread takes off. I want nothing more than to hear others and be heard.

I don't know why anyone that would identify as a capitalist would ever take issue with something like that anyways. Isn't it just just the industries failing due to simple supply/demand anyways?

Tetr4  ·  2181 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Getting into Go

I'm down! I'm only 12 kyu or so, but I'd also be willing to help teach anyone interested.

https://online-go.com/player/440112/

Send me a challenge! :)