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ronintetsuro · 4126 days ago · link · · parent · post: What Are/Were You Looking For (in a relationship)? Did You Find It?
People should STOP 'looking' for things in relationships. Not enough of us know what we're looking for in ourselves, and that can compound the complexity that comes with finding someone we want to spend time with. Take an honest stock of your positives and negatives. Embrace and accentuate the good things about yourself, and understand what needs to be worked on and actively work on them. You will be irresistible to others, because they will aspire to be what you are being. Oh, and get out of the house/office/grind more often. You never know what's just around the corner. Have fun, and you will meet someone accidentally.