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thenewgreen  ·  4159 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How Do You Know When To Trust Someone?

I guess my point is that nobody ever thinks they are the villain. In life, we are all the heroes in the play and tend to rationalize our less than stellar behaviors. Therefore, if you know you are an asshole, it's likely that you don't realize the full impact of your assholishness. If you are hanging out with people that are assholes and know that by being assholes are hurting others, that's not being an asshole, that's being evil.





_refugee_  ·  4157 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Ahhhh, the clarification helps.