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Owl  ·  4234 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What do you do on your birthday?

You know, I have this game I play.

See, for the past three years, my family has forgotten my birthday. I don't remind them myself because I want to see if they'll remember it on their own. Usually I wait until the end of the day to tell them "Hey, forgetting something?", and then they go "oooohhh", and then they feel sad and sorry for me.

Last year, I didn't even tell them until the next day. Next time, I'm going to not tell them until the end of the month.

In reality, I don't like birthday celebrations, so I'm actually happy they forget.





lil  ·  4231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

By family, do you mean parents and siblings? Anyway, your story is pretty sad. Why would you like birthdays when the family doesn't seem to remember? When is your birthday?

Owl  ·  4229 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yup. My parents and siblings.

I dislike birthdays. I don't like the cakes, the presents, the odd apparent artifical nature of it all. I guess. How I describe it doesn't accurately mirror my sentiments, but I can't find the right words, so I'll settle with artificial, which is sorta like how I feel about it.

I don't really want a day where people do that kind of stuff to me. When I was a kid it was fun, because everyone around you is happy and you showered with affection and presents, but around my teen years it started feeling off, and eventually I dreaded my birthday. The sentiment is nice, I'll gladly concede that.

I prefer a simple "Happy Birthday!" than all of the above, or even just treating me like you would any other day.

My birthday is on September 28th. On a funny side note, as a child, I thought my birthday was on September 27th. I'm not sure how I came to believe that. Perhaps it sounded more euphonic as you have the "s" sound on September and 7th. I recall liking to say that date because it sounded neat. It was perhaps on my 8th(?) birthday when I realized it was 28th. I'm not sure how I went that far not knowing my real birthdate, but then again, maybe that just went to show how much birthdays really didn't matter to me.