Me too, but celebrated last night. Happy birthday! Maybe just try having a good time on your own? 21 is a hyped up birthday. On my 21st my friends got me started by making me drink 6 prairie fires, which is tequila and tobasco sauce. I would much rather have hung out and had a really good meal, but that's the way it went.
I dunno, it seems to me that certain spices can be really transformitive in a good way, and in the oddest of places. I had a dark chocolate cupcake with cayenne pepper the other day that floored me. I know the Aztecs figured this out waaaaaay before me, but damn was it good...
Happy birthday to you too! So far, so good. Had our performance and went to get drinks before our dance practice. It's already been the best birthday I've ever had. If I go out next weekend with some more people it will only get better. Also one of my best friends is turning 21 in exactly one month, so getting to celebrate with him will be an even better time.