The strategy of giving up on "determination, grit, self-confidence, desire" might be more relevant to the typical NYT reader if the author were not already an expert climber with decades of experience. The Everything Store has a preview of his book, The Zen of Climbing, in which he recounts this episode in more detail. The route, "a soft 5.13a/7c+, but not a gimme" is in fact the highest expert level, just before Super Expert, Elite, Super Elite, and Aliens. He did not give up on his hard-earned skills, nor the physical capability developed over years. "When I took away (the desire for success), my body moved with greater fluidity and naturalness." One wonders why he would even make a second attempt if there was no desire for success, but I think this implies a relaxing of the standard for success, not simply getting to the top but facing the challenge and learning from it. This sounds like good advice for someone who has reached the level of mastery at which "nerves" have become the biggest obstacle.I wasn't mad, but for the first time in my life, after climbing for nearly 30 years, it struck me that the desire to climb the route had actually been the thing preventing me from doing so. That was the beginning of a massive shift in my perspective.
Your only goal is to breathe, and stay there, each move by each move. Just execute. Try hard, but not too hard. But don't panic. Relaxed aggression. Poised, but with nothing to lose. Listen to exactly what your body needs. Respond as quickly as possible. Make good decisions.
The 'nerves', whenever they grow beyond healthy-for-motivation levels, are the obstacle regardless of skill. My ability to play and enjoy chess was severely hindered by anxiety, but skyrocketed when I separated performance metrics from self-worth or approval and the like.This sounds like good advice for someone who has reached the level of mastery at which "nerves" have become the biggest obstacle.
Yeah, agreed. An interesting take away from this is that "nerves" continues to remain an obstacle for people at all levels, even at elite ranks of mastery.
I think this holds true across the board. True top performers aren’t the best because they learned fancy moves or techniques-it’s because they have practiced the basics to such a high extent that performing them is completely natural. That base allows you to build and expand more into your natural repertoire. Trying to mentally overcome that ability in the moment instead of trusting that base and letting your honed instincts work usually leads to failure. We don't rise to the level of our expectations, we fall to the level of our training
"When most people think about getting better, they think about adding pieces onto themselves. What I'm saying is, think about better as the first thing you do is you have to cut off a limb. You do surgery on yourself with a pocket knife. What you're doing is you're cutting out that thing that you held as true that wasn't. You first have to eliminate that. When you do there's a vacuum, and into that vacuum you can place something that's true. Most people don't want to do that work. But if you do that work, you're forever transformed." Source - Discussion starts at about 22.45.