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comment by dublinben
dublinben  ·  615 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: March 15, 2023

    we're both depressed

is likely a significant contributing factor of

    we don't have sex

It's worth doing everything you (both) can to fix that, because it is slowly killing your relationship. Once you're on the other side, you may be amazed just how much better everything is between you two, inside and outside the bedroom.