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comment by kleinbl00
kleinbl00  ·  1169 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: September 15, 2021

Make a move, dude. Trust me on this.

"No, no, we're just friends" is archaic girldate speak for "I can tell you're nervous and threatened and yes, I will give you more time to shit or get off the pot in hopes that you'll make the right choice."

If I could go back in time and tell myself this at your age my experience would have been much more interesting.





goobster  ·  1169 days ago  ·  link  ·  

+1

uhsguy  ·  1168 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It’s dumb but ABC always comes to mind. Always be closing. Never regretted making the move, at worst case you get rejected but getting rid of the Ambiguity and spending time on someone who’s not interested you always end up ahead in the long run.