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lil  ·  1449 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: FRIENDSHIPS in the Covidium

I don't quite understand the last sentence. Do you mean that you have an easier time caring for others when you are feeling shaky about yourself -- because what you are saying to them or helping them with helps strengthen you -- if that's it, then, yes, I see that.

I also agree that we do get something out of the friendships that seem like work. On some days, that person might be just the one to get us out on a walk.





kleinbl00  ·  1449 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I am saying that my fundamental assessment of my own self-worth is zero, thus it is much easier to care for others because my fundamental assessment of their worth is non-zero.