- Let's stop here for a moment and point out that there's nothing wrong with bodybuilding, body modifications, polyamory, Dom/sub relationships, pup play, or the social media fame that Hafertepen indulged in, even if it seems out of the mainstream. Many gay men use these methods to reclaim their own bodies or to play with masculinity, sexuality, and power. However, Tank's desire to perpetually serve Master Dylan, and to alter his body to his master's whims, could plausibly have been what caused his death.
Kink should make life more interesting and an essential part of participating in any kink is discussion of and respect for safety, limitations and boundaries. Dysmorphia is beyond kink and is a mental illness. Chapman died as a result of his mental illness being manipulated and fostered by other(s) without regards to his safety. As Dan Savage said in regards to Small Penis Humiliation: So long as he isn't contemplating some dangerous or stupid way to make his cock bigger (like getting liquid silicone injected into his genitals, something that led to the death of a gay man in Seattle last year), you can engage in SPH without doing him harm. In the latest news: Daddy Hafertepen and others in his harem have been sued by Chapman's mom for wrongful death, negligence, intentional infliction of emotional distress, and civil conspiracy. She seeks punitive damages and a ruling that his will was illegally revised to make Haftertepen sole beneficiary.
That's where I picked up the story. The latest news coverage is heavy on the sensationalism, though.In the latest news: Daddy Hafertepen and others in his harem have been sued by Chapman's mom for wrongful death, negligence, intentional infliction of emotional distress, and civil conspiracy. She seeks punitive damages and a ruling that his will was illegally revised to make Haftertepen sole beneficiary.