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OftenBen  ·  1983 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: June 19, 2019  ·  

My long term disability got approved last week. No appeals, no court battle, just long months of waiting and a few of scraping brokeness.

I get my full package, benefits and 401k contribution included.

Thankful to be able to take some time to actually take care of myself the way I need to. Eat the way I should, daily. Take exactly the medications I should, without thinking about rationing, daily. Attend cardiac rehab and be able to pay my copay. Have to do some doctor shopping, new psych, new pain doc, but it's manageable.

Truthfully I'm kind of numb. I want to be elated, we went out to a nice dinner to celebrate, but it hasn't set in yet that I actually got the benefits that I earned, that I signed up for years ago specifically for when the day came that I needed them. I guess I find it hard to believe that the corporate end of the bargain is being held up.

Just need some time to process I guess.

Finished The Universe in a Nutshell, gonna re-read it for the sake of clarity and comprehension before moving on to the next one. Hawking is a wonderful breather from Durant.





kleinbl00  ·  1983 days ago  ·  link  ·  

There aren't enough people who understand what you've been through. I have a rough idea.

I hope this gives you a chance to live easier.

OftenBen  ·  1983 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I hope so too.

craig123  ·  1954 days ago  ·  link  ·  

take care of yourself