Eventually, the wisest learn that you may as well vote just in case, and so no one gets on your back about it... but to never expect much.
This is true for national tickets but local and state-level you can totally sway the outcome. I think that's part of the problem - nobody gives a shit until we're voting for president when simple things like "do I want my ambulances to be run by a private for-profit corporation" are things that directly impact your community. There's also the "old people constantly vote against libraries" problem which young people are uniquely positioned to solve as well as the "I would like to starve my local school district to give rich people vouchers to pay for their Montessori programs" that can be overturned simply by having renters outvote homeowners. They want you to despair. Despair and tenaciousness are about to be their only weapons. 
No, it's become too big to be influenced even at the local level. Seattle elections alone seeing 7-8 figure investments in campaigning. All of the states you mention see 6 figure campaigns. If you lack public influence and any other useful job skills you might as well not bother with the political theater system.