INTERVENTION TIME This is your family. You guys aren't being honest with each other. You've reached the point where you're performing intelligence analysis, not sharing family news. Once you're on a distrustful footing, you will continue looking for reasons to distrust your mother and your brother. This is not a road you want to go down, particularly when health is on the line. Tell your mother "I've taken to writing down our conversations and cross-referencing them because I think you're hiding stuff from me. Even if you think you're being completely honest, I need you to do whatever you can to convince me you're being completely honest because I don't like being in this position." Or words to that effect. You guys are going through some shit. You need to go through it together.Thank goodness I started to record those chats so now I can trace when she slips.