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OftenBen  ·  3020 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: August 17, 2016

Had a treadmill stress test this morning to evaluate my cardiac function and try and figure out if there's a reason why I am still feeling routinely crappy even after some substantial weight loss and better management of my fluids/electrolytes. The last time I had one was 5 years ago and I was able to perform about 70% of what is expected for a person of my age/sex/weight. Today I was at 49%.

I'm not happy about it. Because of this result I have to have a wire shoved into my heart through my neck while I'm conscious.

I have a date on Saturday. She's lovely, intelligent, deeply caring and empathetic. We're going to get coffee and a bagel and go kayaking. Or if we get rained out, a museum and a barbecue joint I've been meaning to try out.





_refugee_  ·  3020 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Have a LOT of fun on your date, Ben! Bagels are delicious.

OftenBen  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The place we're going deep fries some of them 0.0

_refugee_  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

yas plsssss

arguewithatree  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

that is FUCKED UP

OftenBen  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You say that, but then you bite into it and all your concerns melt away.

goobster  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

... along with 4 years of your life... :-)

OftenBen  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Take an extra 6 months for the mountain of garden veggie cream cheese I pile on top of them too.

_refugee_  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

ugh ben you are not being kind right now

DAY #4 COMING TO A CLOSE

OftenBen  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

My apologies.

You can make croutons out of bagel, though I think that might break the spirit of your challenge.

_refugee_  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm allowed to have croutons. The spirit of the challenge is much more "eat healthy" than anything.

Having bagels in the household might break the actual challenge on my end, though. Damn I love bagels. An onion bagel with lox and smear? We're in heaven.

_refugee_  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Capers even.

arguewithatree  ·  3018 days ago  ·  link  ·  

poppy seed bagel, lox&cream cheese, glass of cranberry juice. that's my go to comfort food.

user-inactivated  ·  3018 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Sandwich some red onion and tomato b/w the cream cheese and lox (in that order) and count me in.

arguewithatree  ·  3016 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm agnostic about veggies in my bagels. Except capers. Capers are ok

OftenBen  ·  2049 days ago  ·  link  ·  

966 days later I'm telling you I have learned the value and deliciousness of capers.

arguewithatree  ·  1921 days ago  ·  link  ·  

128 days after that I am applauding your decision!!

user-inactivated  ·  3019 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I have a date on Saturday.

YEAH!

    She's lovely, intelligent, deeply caring and empathetic.

You nailed it.

Best of luck. I hope it goes most fantastic for both of you.

galen  ·  3020 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Rain kayaking can be super romantic if they'll let you on the water. Just saying ;)

OftenBen  ·  3020 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I don't mind getting drenched, but I know that's not a common opinion to hold.

_refugee_  ·  3018 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Cell phone. Make sure she does not bring her cell phone. That is a sure way to never get a second date through no fault of your own - if she brings anything non-waterproof because she didn't think about it and it gets ruined.

Also make sure she's got the right shoes. I wore hiking shoes and socks last time I went canoeing. I is a silly.

OftenBen  ·  3018 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I carry a dry-bag explicitly for cellphones/ID.

Weather looks like it will be good though :3