:-) That's what I've been thinking since 2 weeks ago, I decided if he had done it...it's his problem and just to find every way possible to stay out of it:) Like thenewgreen said, I know I would never do anything like that and I know full well they want me to think I have...but since I've decided to just get on with things...there's been this kind of hushed panic with my parents and I'm starting to feel a lot stronger and a whole lot less confused:)