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tacocat  ·  3080 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: June 22, 2016

My little brother is schizophrenic. About a week and a half ago he attacked my dad's girlfriend then went in the kitchen to get a knife. He's been in the hospital since and now they're ready to release him. My dad doesn't want him living with him anymore so they're going to put him in a home. I've been in the psych hospital many times and I hate it and I hate that it's come to this for my brother. I can't imagine going into one of those places and never being able to leave. It's like prison for the mentally ill. I think my dad should break up with his girlfriend and let my brother come back home. That's not really a good solution though. My brother needs some serious care. I don't know what to think about all this.





kleinbl00  ·  3080 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Your brother needs to either (A) be under 18 or (B) do some serious criminal violence against others to be held against his will for any real duration. Ten day psych holds are about what you can get out of a violent incident and even then, that means that the shrinks on duty think they can get him back to a semi-even keel.

I've known some profoundly impaired schizophrenics and even the most scrooge-like libertarian would rather pay for halfway houses than any other alternative. The shitty thing about schizophrenia is if you've had more than a couple episodes, you can kind of expect to be dealing with it through your 50s. The great thing about schizophrenia is once you start treating it like any other disability you can lead a semi-normal life.

I recommend E. Fuller Torrey's Surviving Schizophrenia. Your little brother will need an advocate and it sounds like that's you.

Cowboy up, and good luck.

tacocat  ·  3080 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I own Surviving Schizophrenia and I coincidentally have E. Fuller Torrey's page open on my wikipedia tab after I saw the book on my shelf and wanted to know who he is. I've been diagnosed as schizoaffective but I think I have schizoid personality disorder. But what do I know.

I have another younger brother. It'd be nice if we could all live together and support each other but my family is massively dysfunctional.

kleinbl00  ·  3080 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Goals are those things that trade impossibly hard work for a better life.

user-inactivated  ·  3080 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The run-of-the-mill mental health system is pretty fucked up (read: underdeveloped). I'm very sorry this happened. At the luncheon last week I was reminded of the different resources available. Via post history, I read that you're in Georgia? Here's some great resources including a free clinic for help.

This is a link to the Mental Health Association of Georgia. The MHA is pretty good (from what I know) with both mental health advocacy and directing patients to actually helpful resources. I linked you straight to the resources page where I found one of a handful of free clinics I could find. We only have one out-patient here in CFL, but it takes care of diagnosing, check-ups, treatment, the whole 9 yards for free. They estimated saving patients over $1mil last year alone in out local clinic. I hope this is a help.

elizabeth  ·  3080 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Have you watched Louis CK's new show Horace and Pete? It tackles mental illness issues in a very interesting and heartbreaking manner.

Much love to you and your family, I hope it gets better <3

tacocat  ·  3080 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I watched the first episode and didn't care for it. I might reconsider seeming as it picks up later. Love Louis CK.

elizabeth  ·  3080 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It's definitely a strange show, but the story unfolds nicely in my opinion.

steve  ·  3080 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm so sorry your family is going through this. I have a great deal of compassion for your brother and for all of you. Sending you positive vibes.