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cgod  ·  3099 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person

I had no intention to get married. I wasn't opposed but there was certainly never anyone that made me feel like it was something I wanted to be involved in. I was content to be a bachelor for life.

I met the woman who would someday be my bride and could not think of any reason I would not want to keep being with her.

I see many people who are unhappily married or just unhappily commited. I don't know how they chose their life or why they endure it. I'd rather never marry than go through a divorce. I don't fear that divorce is in my future.