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thenewgreen  ·  3117 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Dear Hubski, what advice would you give to a couple about to get married?

goobster is also about to take the plunge.

Good luck to you all. I would say that if you're not committed to spending the rest of your life w this person, don't do it.

Also, have fun and enjoy being engaged. You were unmarried for many years, you'll hopefully be married for many years but you will only be engaged for a short while. "Fiancee" is a fleeting thing. Enjoy it.