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goobster  ·  3120 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: May 11, 2016

My sweetie can get caught up like your wife, and kinda skim across the surface of things, but I have found ways to anchor her, bring her down into some meaningful interaction, and then let her go chase shiny things again. Afterwards, she remembers the times that we connected on something, and is appreciative for it. It helps the whole event become more than just a blur of momentary connections, but a series of deep moments interspersed with fun craziness.

Hopefully the wedding will be the same!





thenewgreen  ·  3120 days ago  ·  link  ·  

My wife has a crazy ability to notice the imperfections in things. A crack here, there... It's an amazing quality for a dermatologist to have. Kinda annoying in a fiancée.