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comment by ooli
ooli  ·  3155 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski: How Do You Make Yourself Do Uncomfortable, Unfamiliar, or Intimidating Things?

Your brain is not doing the right thing. Deliberately with a lot of effort he try to ruin yourself. Consider he is your worst enemy. He might be tempting, cause his an efficient arch-villain, but he is not doing you any good.

In brief: Attribute your internal justification to someone else. Someone REALLY don't want you to make friends. Let's see about THAT!