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user-inactivated  ·  3343 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: September 30, 2015

    "Nah. I don't like to walk in the city." Sounds final

So I figured. It didn't sound like she was going for "Sod off, creep", but given that she proposed no alternative, I'm left to presume that she simply doesn't want to go out with me.

    How do you go about wording that?

Nothing different: "Would you like to take a walk with me?". They usually reply with "Okay!" or "Well, why not?".

    How well would it need to be worded?

Just how well might I? I don't believe going for anything more than the phrase I stated before would be necessary - other than, perhaps, finding out whether the girl is busy at the moment or for whenever I'd like to ask her for. From what I see, I've stated my request in a voice that implies interest; hopefully, my voice, though somewhat emotionless, does not imply something I don't want it to - for example, that I'm wanting something beyond the walk immediately or have no interest in the girl herself. Am I wrong to assume all that?