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elizabeth  ·  3370 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: September 2, 2015

Thanks :)

I'm sad but I've been keeping busy and I can't say it affected much in my life. I cried a bunch the first day but I havn't really since. I only remember when I have some down town in public transport and stuff like that. Am I a bad person for moving on so quickly? :(





Cedar  ·  3370 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Absolutely not. People have very different reactions to the death of a loved one and I think that as you were sad but were not over-encumbered by it is a healthy reaction and shows that you're certainly not a bad person. That said, others in your family may not be coping so well so keep their feelings in mind and if you can help them to move on you should. :)

Sorry for your loss.