"Are you gay?" or "I hope I'm not going to offend you, but..." I love talking about sexuality and my experiences, and hearing about other people's reality and way of thinking, their opinions and feelings - but I only like all this when the people are open to discussion and or interested - so I never bring any of it up. It's both my favourite, and I wish people would ask it more. Fav answer (that I give, since I don't generally ask other people) - "yeah, I'm a flaming homo" (though I usually say something boring like.. 'yes.') - and - "Sure, no worries, ask or say anything ~ " Why - because it informs and opens up to interesting things, anthropological studies, and sharing - perhaps educating and enlightening.
Is it? Wonderful! I didn't know that. I would never imagine Finns having such a word. I can't seem to find its meaning or translation, though. Can you tell me what it means? Yes, your nickname was the reason I was wondering. Hubski seems to have a much broader roster of people from Russia or those appreciating Russian language or culture. It makes me both glad and confused.