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comment by Idonknowwhattodo
Idonknowwhattodo  ·  3427 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Me [31 M] with my girlfriend [29 F] of 3 years, am I wasting her life?

Avoiding co-dependence is probably healthy.

The problems are probably located somewhere between career and future plans, problems in organising daily lives and related habits, causing a lot of irritation.

More than I need feedback on my/our specific issues, I need to understand and learn how to ask the right questions myself to figure out what to do - thanks a lot for your help so far!