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comment by illu45
illu45  ·  3424 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Have you ever found out that one or both of your parents cheated?

Have you talked to your husband about the mismatch in your libidos? Mismatched libidos are not uncommon, nor are they easy to solve, but they can be worked through if both parties are willing to do so. It sounds like a relationship or sexual therapist might be very useful for you both, if you're able to get one.

EDIT: You might find this Reddit comment worth reading.