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steve  ·  3424 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Have you ever found out that one or both of your parents cheated?

I don't think it's fair for them to ask you to keep a secret. That's not healthy or fair. They made choices. Those choices have consequences. They should not ask you to bear the burden of secrecy.





asianicing  ·  3424 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Mom doesn't know I know she cheated, and dad told me everything including how he cheated. He doesn't want me to say a thing because it could unravel decades of a marriage that's been built on regained trust, and I completely understand that. Hubski's a good outlet for this.

steve  ·  3424 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm really sorry that they have put you in the middle like that. I'm glad you've at least got this place to vent.