It's an interesting hypothesis, but without some sort of experimentation, there's no way to know if it's true. It's quite possible that the Elf on the Shelf has the opposite effect. I'm sure if we were to have had an Elf on the Shelf when we were kids, we would have soon discovered the limits of his powers.
That said, we were just talking about the Elf on the Shelf last night, and I joked that we should expect a leak of the Elf on the Shelf files soon.
He sees you when you're sleeping He knows when you're awake He knows if you've been bad or good So be good for goodness sake You better watch out, you better not cry You better not pout, I'm telling you why The Elf on the Shelf, if anything, normalizes the dystopic surveillance state first conceived in 1934. Santa Claus is the all-seeing, all-knowing, omnipotent power that children are warned about. I mean, shit - if you touch the elf you break his magic. Santa Claus, meanwhile, is an irresistible force capable of ruining your holidays.
Exactly, it is far from a new concept. Add to it that Christ/God is omniscient and well, most Americans celebrating Christmas for religious reasons succumbed to the notion of an omnipresent police state years ago.
Dang. My folks, fortunately for me, didn't use Santa, religion, or the police as motivation for excellent behavior. In my house, Mom and Dad's actions delivered the message of, be nice, "What goes around, comes around." Yes! Elf on the Shelf can, all-to-easily, be used as an instrument for normalizing a surveillance state, but it can also help kids develop a healthy awareness of their decisions and the effects on others. Maybe each elf should come with a warning of how easily you can mess up your kids with him.
Yeah, I think that people are WAY over thinking this "elf on the shelf" concept. We have always constructed the existence of some sort of "all knowing" entity in our societies, this isn't a "new" thing. The Elf on the shelf is a parenting tool, that's it. Kids have the ability to "believe" in things that later in life, they'll not be able to. My daughter thinks I'm a Jedi Wizard, she thinks Santa can see whether she's being good or bad and she thinks Anakin Skywalker turned to the dark side only after her Uncle Andy stole Aunt Ashley's affections from him. -There's a small window in their lives where this stuff works, and it's actually a lot of fun for them. The key is, as they get older to teach them to think rationally. We don't have the Elf of the Shelf, but we'd not be opposed to having one. If it helps her to think about her actions and how they can effect an outcome, I'm cool with that.
I definitely agree on the over thinking. It all depends on if you want to guide your kids to the best decision making, or coerce them them through fear. Maybe not everyone sees it this way, but we can guide our kids to primarily look at decisions as opportunities to move toward positive results, or decisions as a crossroads in which they must avoid making terrible mistakes. The Elf can be such an opportunity for growth, but also a potential device of control. I recently read a book "No More Taking Away Recess and Other Problematic Discipline Practices" that captures the spirit of looking for growth minded discipline for children. I read it through the eyes of an educator and parent and have found some serious benefits. Cool stuff.
We use our elf as a fun and entertaining third party to help our two kids reflect on their behaviors. They love to hear that "Oscar" reported some excellent choices and that he was bummed to see them being mean to each other.
The elf, like a coach, we've found, allows for an "outside perspective" on the kids behaviors. We've found it easier to talk about and improve behavioral choices. Plus, the kids love finding him each morning. No doubt in my mind, the elf, like any underling or minion, can be used to amplify poor parenting skills such as holding children to unreasonably high behavioral expectations as the elf, as the "muscle", becomes available during the holidays.