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comment by blackbootz
blackbootz  ·  3745 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I am having a shitty evening.

Oh mensch.

Rationally and impersonally, go for the don't-think-about-it approach. Being too cool for school and genuinely basing your actions on what you want, independent of one lady, is the best, or at leaster better, bet, better than obsessing or secretly mind willing a person to requite your feelings. This is advice I would also like to follow myself.