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OftenBen · 3764 days ago · link · · parent · post: Lil's Book of Questions: What Did You Learn about Yourself from Your Last Relationship? Part II
The latter in this particular case. I made all sorts of assumptions about what would or would not be 'fair' to her, what her opinions 'obviously' would be. True. I would add that the cases where the other partners input is needed is when things are going well, but there are significant concerns about the future.The decision to breakup isn't always one that needs the other partner's input, that's all.