A lot of people just assume that guys are only into hot women. In fact, I kind of don't want an attractive mate to be honest. What do I want? I want someone who doesn't blab my entire life history on Facebook 10 seconds after I tell her something personal. I want someone who is comfortable with their own life and doesn't need my approval or her friends' approval just to speak her mind. I want someone who isn't a moron financially and makes reasonable decisions in general. The other problem is, I generally get blinders on when I am actively looking for someone. There have been many times where 3 months after having last spoken to a person I wonder why in the world I was ever interested in them in the first place. So will I find a mate? Probably not. Do I care? No. I'm sick of society pushing on people that you absolutely must have a mate, must be social, and must conform to existing societies' standards. If you don't, society views you as either a potential mass murderer, a rapist, or a pedophile. I have been accused of every single one of those just about 200+ times in my life, and I can confirm I am none of those. I guess I can't confirm it, you'll just think I'm those things anyway. Anyone who even has to deny they are a pedophile or a serial killer really is one of those things, right? Bottom line is, just be comfortable being alone. It's great when you think about it! Uhhhh... $87k/year is an actual cutoff for some people? Seriously?If she would like him to be fairly attractive and earn a comfortable income (over $87,000 annually), then she’s down to a single prospect out of 100.