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humanodon  ·  3923 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Monthly resolutions

Goal setting is a big thing for me, so I think that it's great you're doing this.

It also looks like we both joined on the same day, so cheers!





irokie  ·  3923 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Goal setting is a really simple, but powerful tool to help prioritise stuff. I was surprised the first time I sat down and made a list with a few goals. I discovered I'd been carrying around a sense of paralysis at the thought that there was so much that I could do, that I didn't know what to do. Since then, I've been setting goals with varying degrees of specificity depending on the time-frame, and I've been really happy with the results. I am starting a new job in a new country in a few weeks and that all stems from a goal that I set more than 5 years ago.

thenewgreen  ·  3922 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm a big fan of making "lists." There are always things that I'd prefer to be doing and I don't allow myself to do them until I've crossed all of the more tedious things off of my list. -It works.

Jeshk0, good luck with your goals! You write:

    But this is very straight-forward and not very difficult. It gives me something to focus on this year, but it's not nearly ambitious enough. I can definitely do better.
-I think its important to challenge yourself for sure, but at the same time its VERY important that the goals we set in life are realistic and attainable. Otherwise, frustration sets in and often complacency isn't too far behind.

Good luck!

humanodon  ·  3923 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Awesome! Breaking big goals into smaller, more easily achievable goals is so important for overcoming that paralysis and understanding that change takes time; sometimes years! What kind of work and where, if you don't mind me asking?

irokie  ·  3922 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It's true, and it also means that you feel as in-control as it is possible to feel. Having clear priorities also means that it's easy to readjust should something unexpected come up (even if that readjustment is "I'm going to re-examine my priorities, and set a new goal").

I've been watching House of Cards recently, and I'm a little worried that I'm starting to sound like Frank Underwood. I'm not that committed or ruthless, I just like to know where I'm going.

Working in IT ($big_name_company), moving from Dublin, Ireland to the Pacific Northwest. Also moving from engineering to management. Very excited about the whole thing! :)

humanodon  ·  3922 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Wow, that sounds like a lot of change in a short amount of time, congrats!

Jeshk0  ·  3923 days ago  ·  link  ·  

For some reason I had thought that you'd been here for longer than I have. Anyway, happy anniversary!