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comment by lil

If you do want to talk about it or if it comes up, I would ask him, very calmly, for his evidence.

"How do you know that?"

"What's your evidence?"

and then bombard him with online studies that show the opposite.

If he says, "It's against nature." Show him evidence of homoerotic behaviour among other species.

If discussing it makes you afraid you will be accused of being gay, there are things to say in response to that.

Most people probably just find new friends in cases like yours. Good luck.