This might all be to your credit, as the exception might validate the sincerity of your successes. As I am also a 'western-cis-hetero-nearly white-male with an advanced degree', it can be quite easy to dress apathy up in the cloth of enlightenment. More than easy, it can be a straight-up motus operandi. And, under that consideration, Laurelai might hold the higher moral ground over us, even with its contradictions, which I suspect she has well thought upon. That is, she is on a path, and we are not on that path. If the Dude abides and everything goes to fucking hell, did the Dude really abide? Sorry to pull you into my existential crisis by association.[edit] also I don't like spies and cops but nobody is perfect
[edit2] I like individual spies and cops who are family member and friends but I dislike spies and cops and a group also MRMers, MLMers and Objectivists.
Oh I think we are in the same page. I have the easy virtue of those who don't have enough energy to be hateful.