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Haha. Now I view it as a reminder that I am not ready to get married (yet). If I do ever wed I plan on somehow changing the tattoo so that the significance also changes. I believe the answer is I was 20 and screwed up on substances and experiences and not thinking very much at all at the time. :) Better now. Even at the time, it was a hard choice but I knew it was the right choice for me to make. I do try to be relatively up front about it. I think brutal honesty somehow and sometimes helps. It is not wise to try to hide from ourselves our own mistakes. Plus it is a subject on which I am very passionate.