In psychological terms, I went through this in about 2000. My parents were boarding school educated, and I went to a private school for 3.5 years. The main reason why the transition is hard is because of the degree to which that education brainwashes you to think that you're a member of the proverbial ruling class.

No. The reason why is because not all women are feminists. Saying that I don't like feminism, is not the same as saying that I don't like women. If you people are going to become horrified by how sick what I'm writing supposedly is, then in my own defense, I can at least realise that I'm not making the sort of generalisation that you think I am.

I can remember reading recently, how this common perception has developed, that feminism is somehow a default political proxy for all women, and so if you think that feminism sucks, (which I do) then that must unavoidably make you a misogynist by definition.

It does not. I've never met a single woman yet, or even seen one, who identified as a feminist, who I considered psychologically healthy; although I've known plenty of non-feminist women who were perfectly fine.

To summarise, some feminists are women, but not all women are feminists.

Agreed. The FSF are a cult. That does not mean that I advocate the NSA spying on them, however; I don't want the NSA to spy on anyone.

Planned obsolescence.

Feminism and the TRP/MRA scene are both composed largely of pathological vermin, as far as I am concerned. I don't hate women as people, but I don't entertain too many illusions about the possibility of my engaging in a decent relationship with one of them, either; although to be fair, that is as much because of my own issues as it is because of theirs.

As for Stormfront, they have both pros and cons, to be brutally honest. Yes, as fascists and white supremacists, they have some deeply sick ideas; but the different between the average Stormfag and the average redditor, is that I can disagree with the Stormfag, and he won't try and remove my ability to speak entirely, whereas a Reddit user will.

The hard Right actually care a lot more about genuine freedom of expression than the Reddit demographic do, in my experience. Reddit has an enforced consensus, and if you step outside of that, they will generally either use attempts at censorship, or various forms of psychological warfare to bludgeon you back into compliance. The fact that I got sick of that, and started looking for alternatives, was actually what led me here.

Back on topic; the way to deal with TRP is to passively marginalise and ignore them. Attempting to engage in activism against them won't stop them, and all it will do is make them feel vindicated, and even more certain that they are right. They are a small and pathological minority; and feminism has made sufficient inroads that there is no danger of them spreading, if left to their own devices.